Well we were waiting for ow to get her mail and the unopened letter again to my H. We sent it back unopened yesterday.<P>She called H at around 10 am screaming....H told her not to call any more. We will pick baby up any time but to call the # I gave her and hung up on her.<P>I called her back on my phone. I asked how she was and told her she was not my H's wife and I am more than willing to take calls to arrange visits.<BR>She may not call my H anymore.<P>She went crazy and called me insecure. I said I was NOT insecure but he doesn't wish to talk to you about this. We love the baby and you can call ME for anything and I'll give him the message.<P>A lot more was said and she said she had to go. I begged her to take my # down in case she changed her mind about us seeing baby before she goes to Florida. She said no.<P>Fifteen minutes later she called to say she was moving on and we will never see the baby again.....blah...blah....blah...<P>My H said I handled things smooth and well. Now he says lets just go on with our lives until SHE takes the next move.<P>I guaranteed him she will sue for cs as soon as dna comes in and to get ready.<P>H and I are seeing her for what she is. God bless GianCarlo. I hope someday he'll know we were trying our best to love him. Pray for him.<P>Love<BR>Debi<P>------------------<BR>Imagine....<p>[This message has been edited by gemini1 (edited June 02, 2001).]

What a nasty classless person. Makes me ashamed to say I am the same gender as trash like that. That poor little boy. I will be praying for him and you and your hubby. And I will pray the Lord will work on her heart and head and she will realize she is not the most important part of this equation. Meanwhile Gem, keep fighting the good fight.<BR>Lots of admiration,<BR>bw

Thanks BrokenWings,<BR>She also left 3 new messages on H's business phone saying he choose his other family first. She will tell baby dad had other priorities. If he can't be a full time dad(I told her we'd be there for baby,she just wants H to be there...all the time....together for baby's sake....I told her it's not a normal situation he is married to me not her.)<P>Just leave them alone and go on w/o baby....he'd be a bad influence anyway.... She's gone mad.<P>Prayers welcome here.<P>Love<P>Debi<P>------------------<BR>Imagine....

Dear Gem,<P>Heartfelt prayers sent your way...<P>Certainly her true colors are shining through.<BR>I hope for Giancarlo's sake that she pull her<BR>head out of her a**.<P>Where is her H now? Did he go back to Fl?<BR> I feel sorry for her all her children...<BR>she is spreading so much negative energy<BR>that she can not be a good mother to any of <BR>then right now.<P>Keep up the good work on your end-you guys are the<BR>only ones who truly have his best interests in mind.<BR>How unfortunate the ow is acting like a school girl<BR>with a family to raise.<P>TAke care, fluke<BR>

<BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR>Where is her H now? Did he go back to Fl?<BR>I feel sorry for her all her children...<BR>she is spreading so much negative energy<BR>that she can not be a good mother to any of <BR>then right now<HR></BLOCKQUOTE><P>Hi Fluke...how ya doin?<P>Yes her h is back in fla.<P>She's going down thurs w/4 kids and mom for 2 weeks.<P>Her h found a great job over the winter. He will not move back here. She "threatens" to move there and continue her marriage to keep us away from baby.<P>I don't know if she wants her h or not. I really do not see her moving there and leaving her mom here.<P>I told her she has 3 other kids and what about their dad not being in their lives? She said something like well he never was a good father.....geeze that's not true!! She must forget I know her h and spent holidays at her house. He LOVES those 3 kids and is wonderful to them!<P>She thinks she should be able to talk to my h whenever she needs him for something.<P>I told her we'd get baby more often than courts said. She just plain wants to make this a battle of wills!!!<P>Thanks for prayers. God will let this unfold as HE sees fit.<P>Love<BR>Debi<P>------------------<BR>Imagine....

gem,<BR>prayer added.<BR>amen

Dear gem,<BR>Adding my prayers as well.<BR>-cd

Stay strong, Rare Gem...You're doing a grand.<P>Catnip >^..^<

Hi Gemini,<P>I'm sure I posted this before, but just in case, I want to post it again. <P>Please, please, please keep documentation in a notebook of all telephone calls, messages, denied certified letters sent to her, letters sent to you.. all of it, everything and anything which transpires. I know it is a tedious task and mentally draining, but it will pay great dividends later. <P>So, save those voice mail messages some how, save those letters, save all of it. Put it togther in a nice presentable package and bring it to court. <P>Best of luck and take care of yourself,<BR>CoR

Thanks for prayers Jenny, cd, Catnip, and cor....<P>We have all letters with different demands in all of them. We began recording her last week and have 4 phone messages recorded.<P>How will/can this help?<P>She says SHE'S the mom and has all the rights!!<P>We also printed pictures of the baby when he was here, will that help?<P>Love<BR>Debi<P>------------------<BR>Imagine....