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#800855 06/19/01 05:46 AM
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Dear ISB,<BR>When you have time let us know what's up. I worry about you all the time. Prayers to you.<P>Love<BR>Debi<P><P>------------------<BR>Imagine....

#800856 06/19/01 11:23 AM
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gem, thanks for your words of compassion. <p>[This message has been edited by lsb (edited June 20, 2001).]

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I know that I usually don't post to you, but I do pray for you. If you want, my email is tgr_n_me@yahoo.com.<P>Tigger

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Hi ISB,<P>I have followed your story. I am fairly new to this site but have been posting on the GQII and d/d since Jan 01. I started visiting here when we heard of the trouble caused a couple of months ago. Then it became necessary for me to be here. <P>I am sorry for all the torture you have been through. You are a survivor!!!<P>You are welcome to e-mail me whenever, you would like. My e-mail address is on the JFO board. Any support this 'newbie' can provide is at your disposal. <P>Take Care, <P>L.

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Here ya go....... <P>Hope to hear from you soon. <P>Love<BR>Debi<P>------------------<BR>Imagine....<p>[This message has been edited by gemini1 (edited June 19, 2001).]

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Isb, <BR> i am praying for you. i hope that you will keep posting here becuase like you I do not like to give out my email address but I want to know what is going on in your life.

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isb {{{{{HUG}}}}}<P>Hang in there!!!

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<B>Major hugs Isb</B><P>I am so tremendously sorry for your continued harassment here. Please take care of yourself, your family and your marriage.<P><B>{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{Isb}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}</B><P>------------------<BR><B>God bless you and all of us. We are all going to make it, all of us! [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com] With God on our side we can't lose! [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com] What God has joined together let no man put asunder. <P>Samantha</B><p>[This message has been edited by A blessed Samantha (edited June 20, 2001).]

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See ISB????? We love you and wish you the best! I will pray for you and your family.<P>love<BR>Debi<P>------------------<BR>Imagine....

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Hi Isb,<P>I too want to know that you are OK. I have been reading, but really have not been posting. My situation changed, but still have the A to get through. It took EVERYTHING IN MY BEING NOT to give the last terrorist a peice of my mind. Your H has one SICK SICK XOW ( and if she claims its not her and a friend, or in her sick case "her other voice") It is just as bad. I cant believe he would for a minute want contact for him or his famiy. Speaking on a medical side this woman is a major fruit loop and these type of women are the kind they make movies out of<BR>whats it gonna take for your H to see, a "dead bunny" (fatal attraction)you should rent that movie, your OW is HER. What you guys need is a restraining order, and that fruit loop needs some serious help. <BR>And Miss fruit loop if you think that I am just some BS yakking here...I am not. I have been one of the wives on this board who agrees with contact with OC and feels like it would be a duty..BUT the way you are forcing this, and terrorizing ISB, during her recovery is SICK SICK SICK... I even called my brother on this on (he is a Psychiatrist, a MD) he specializes in post tramatic stress disorder, which alot of us expirences after something like this. I come from a long line of medical (advanced degreed MD's) and I am telling you you are nothing short of a terrorist, and you need some serious counceling. <BR>Isb, your OW is not a normal(whatever the h*** that means when it comes to OW), she is trying beyond the normal "try to break up the marriage" stuff...YOU need a order of protection for at least you and your kids...since your H is not worried...he should be. But you need to protect your children at home. I can now totally understand why you would never want contact with OC. that child will grow up to be the same terrorist type of a human (the apple does not fall to far from the tree), and you kids will be at risk always. it is a necessity to keep them apart, your H needs to wake up. this is NOT A HEALTHY SITUATION..AND AGAIN I have always been on the contact side, and still am...BUT NOT IN THIS CASE...we are talking some extreme serious problems...(((((ISB))))) lots of huggs to you..I had thought for a long time, that you were emotionally weak, which we all have been tome to time...But now I have to think you are one of the strongest women here...to have to endure this, and still be able to function??? hope your H knows how lucky he is to have you, I hope he finally opens his eyes...if he thinks this (OW) is normal behavior, he really should consider counseling too


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