My fiancee is in a difficult position regarding ontact with his children. His ex will only allow him to see them at her house. I wish to be included and see his children but this prohibits this. We have been together for two years and he visits them at the weekend. He is getting irritated by the arrangement as he would like to take them out. As they were not married his solicitor tells him he has to accept this arrangement. I feel insecure about the whole thing.