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Tonight my husband of 13 yrs told me to move on-he is completely done with our marriage. We've been married 12 1/2 years/three kids (4, 5, 8). He moved out two months ago. Admitted to "friendship" with single, younger, childless, attractive co-worker. Since he left I have been insane--calling him, confronting his lies of not staying overnight with her, etc. Four days ago he said he was encouraged about trying to work things out and after catching him in two big lies this week (overnights with her)...he said he can't take it anymore..it's been over for a long time...he can never come back...and he realized that if I was seeing anyone that he wouldn't care. He would wish me happiness. He was crying the whole time. He truly says he is over it and I just can't accept it that he is. Help.
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Welcome to MB. I'm having insomnia myself. So there's someone here who's read your first post and cares! Post back if you're still here. <p>Don't give up on your H. Read the MB site tonight if you can't sleep. You may have been mixing Plan A and Plan B to your marriage's disadvantage. But it's not too late to get a handle on a better approach. Your husband was encouraging this past week and crying on the phone. He doesn't want to let go, he may not have to. <p>Others here will be able to help more. Try posting another message on the general questions board.
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