My husband and I are currently going to marriage counselling (doctor of physcology). 2 weeks ago, the doctor's wife called my husband to see if he could fund a real estate deal of theirs! Isn't this a conflict of interest? My husband is an alcoholic and is depressed (shown by standarized testing), but the doctor will not put him in any programs. There are many trust issues, as my husband had an affair last year, but the secrets and lies continue. What to do?