Whoo-doggies!! Ya'll have been really bad! They went and gave ya'll a passel of moderators.
WEEELLLL! That's OK. We the spouses who have worked so hard to keep our marriages together in spite of OW/OM who intrude into our marriages and lives can handle it. My mama always said, "If you can't say anything nice....." So I have always tried to be nice, haven't I? I believe that what goes around comes around and that God will take care of my revenge. I can strive to forgive ( but not forget) and make my relationship better than it was before the OW's incursion into it. I think most of us have been able to do that. If you haven't reached that point then please all the nice people stay and help us all out.
This was started with a funky sense of humor. I hope I didn't offend anyone. It was an attempt to make light of the whole situation.
But I will not make light of re-building marriages attacked by outsiders. I believe that all relationships have ups and downs. When the going gets tough the tough get going. I did and I would be willing to help someone else get thru the horrendous pain of dealing with a H's affair, OC/OW situation. If we do not help each other who will help us?
Just my 2 cents, any comments? (PLease be nice&gt [img]images/icons/wink.gif" border="0[/img]
Texasgirl

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I agree with what you have said. And even tho I was "the intruder" at one time, I was invited to intrude. Just didn't have the good sense to say no... But that's a story for another day. Good post, great wisdom. And I agree--be nice, be true, be relevant.