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Ok, We got our "get out of jail free card" !!!!!<p> My husband is OFFICIALLY not the OC's biological father!<p>I'm doing the happy dance all over the house. Please join me in a toast to a hard lesson learned.<p>Praise God, for he is good!<p>She paged H this afternoon and he returned the call. Said she couldn't wait any longer and called CS agency. The case worker said she was just about to drop the results in the mail this afternoon. OW begged to hear the results over the phone, and presto, we were released from hell.<p>This is really the best for all around. OW's BF was her live in at the time of the affair. He is also father of two of her other children. So now he can be the father of those three! Hopefully she will do the right thing and try to mend that relationship since he moved out after she broke the news to him. I would point her to MB to get those skills, but fear she'd lurk here.<p>Thank you all for your support. I'll post more later. Z.
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zebrababy, I am so happy for you and Jules. I cannot believe that two of you found out this week that the OC is not your H's. I am thrilled for you, but boy, oh boy, do I wish I were in your shoes! Lucky you!
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zebrababy,<p>I was so scared to open this post....but soooooo HAPPY I did!!!!!!!!<p>Isn't this just the biggest burden lifted off of your shoulders that you can actually FEEL it.<p>Sweetie, I am so so happy for you and H I can hardly type lol....now focus on the rebuilding and you have it made.<p>Praying never hurt anyone huh? I was actually saying a prayer out loud for you today in my car on the way in to work.<p>Love and hugs to you
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DOIN' THE HAPPY DANCE WITH YOU Z BABY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Zebrababy:<p>Hoo-freaking-ray!!! What a monstrous relief for you guys, and I'm happy this turned out the way you'd hoped for.<p>Hugs,
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I am very happy for you.. I am sure this will be a big step in healing your marriage. [img]images/icons/grin.gif" border="0[/img]
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Zebra, I'm so happy for you and Jules. [img]images/icons/smile.gif" border="0[/img] I really am--wow!! Stunning!! After all this time!!! <p>Okay, and jealous... Reading Jules' headline: happiest day of my life, I'm thinking of those of us who are stuck w/OC situation, thinking "what a horrible thing for (our) OC to be the focus of so much unhappiness. Yes, that would have been a VERY HAPPY day for our OC to have been XOW's X-H's child, to be released from 18+y hell..."<p>Ladies released from hell, go forth and enjoy your marriages [img]images/icons/smile.gif" border="0[/img] <p>J
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Zebra, Here,s to you. Oh what great news. I had a feeling you guys were being played. So is she going to pay back all the money your h gave her. I am so glad this all is over for you guys.<p> Now if that tornatoe I keep hoping for would just hit over the scanks apartment building and carry her to China I would be happy.<p> Man does it feel good someone as wonderful as you gets to put this crap behind them. with love flowerseed
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Our God is an AWESOME God...<p>I am so happy for you!<p>Hugs,
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Dear Zebra,<p>I am soooo happy for you! You have a truly wonderful and blessed life ahead because without the burden of the OC, you and your H can put the A behind you and move forward with your lives.<p>Like everyone else, I am soooo envious. But, if it could not be me, I am so glad it was you. Since the day you appeared here you have been a voice of reason and a unifying force to this Board. I am going to be sorry to lose you, but happy that we are losing you to a new and better life.<p>Accept God's blessing with grace, never look back at this situation except to wonder at His goodness. God bless you both and give you a long happy life together.<p>sending you so much love,
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YES!!!! I am so happy for you!!! Girl I'm doing a happy dance for you! You have to email me and tell me what happend! I have to agree with Heavenly if it couldn't be me I'm glad it's you.<p>Luv Ya!<p>Your Sista in recovery! ;o)<p>
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What a peculiar reaction I am having....on one hand I am thrilled and overjoyed for you and for Jules...and on the other hand I am absolutely sick with jealousy. But, what the hell...you all know how incredibly awful I can be.<p>But, what an amazing and outstanding thing to have two persons on this site with the same great news...something we all long for, yearn for. I am so glad this has happened to you both and that you have this amazing reprieve...this chance at a new beginning unhampered with baggage and financial distruction...Oh, if only....<p>Merry Christmas, Happy Birthday and Congratulations...you both just won the big time life lottery.<p>Love to you both, you lucky ladies<p>Catnip =^^= meow
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Zebrababy, sister, well I am tooooo happy for you guys! Now go raise your children w/a FREE mind!<p>Glad you finally had the dna done!<p>YIPEE!!!!!
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Zebrababy, What wonderful news! Hopefully you will pop in still once in awhile to give your advice and wisdom to some of us who are still bogged down on the road to recovery. If not, then I take this time to personally thank you for all you have given to me in my quest for a better marriage. Best of luck to you. <p>Tina
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ZB,<p>Horray! Yee Ha! It couldn't have happened to a greater gal! A restored marriage AND no OC. <p>God is good. All the time.<p>All the time, God is good.<p>MJ
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Z, I am so happy for you. You and Jules have given me hope. <p>Dawn
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LOL, she totally screwed herself didn't she. Had to be greedy. This is fantastic. I bet your DH is just beside himself right now. What was OW reaction, what does she have to say for herself? I think I would let her know that you may just sue her for reimbursement of all the money you gave her lying behind. What a piece of work. I bet she is soooo disappointed <p>You must give the scoop!<p>So happy for you.<p>Melissa [img]images/icons/grin.gif" border="0[/img]
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Oh Z!<p>I am in tears! I am so happy for you!<p>Though many of us do not get the GOJF card... it is wonderful when even one of us does. And to hear that 2 of our own have been released from the chains of not knowing the truth it is wonderful!<p>Congrats to you and Mr Z! You are always in my prayers!
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I don't have the words to tell you how happy I am for you !!!! Congrats!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!<p>jtigger
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