jules27 and zebrababy<p>i am so glad to hear your good news about dna. It gives me some hope. as i've posted before, oc is due 8/25 and ow is 100% sure H is father. He believes her, that she wasn't with anyone else.
i've forgiven them both and our marriage is better than ever, but sometimes i could still punch his lights out for having the A. <p>we have turned everything over to GOD and i pray that oc will not be his. EVERYONE please pray for us that Gods will be done and that we can accept and handle whatever we have to face.<p>everyones posts have really helped me through this difficult time. D-day was 2/26. I hate that anyone has to go through our situation, but it helps to know we're not alone and that there is someone out there who understands. I don't know about the rest of you, but I have noone to talk to about this. i'm hoping oc is not his and noone else will have to know. <p>i'm praying for all of you. please pray for me too!<p>butterflybonanza <blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr> <hr></blockquote>[LIST]

can i tell you a secret.<p>When I prayed (which was a lot) I actually envisioned the dna strands. I pictured what my H's would look like and what the OC's would look like. And in my mind I superimposed them and they were different. I did this daily (sometimes three and four times a day) for weeks. It was like a discovery channel show in my head. <p>I swear, I was obsessed.<p>
But I also knew.. if it was his.. we'd be o.k. because we had already put the work into building a strong foundation for our new marriage. <p>DNA positive or negative ... we are an unbeatable team.<p>That's what counts.<p>Z.

Butterfly,

Sorry it has taken me so long to respond to you.

I will keep you in my prayers as I do everyone on this board. I feel like you can and will accept whatever it is you are faced with and you will overcome this together. That is the reason you are here is for support and to learn....so I have no doubt in your strength.

Take care and keep posting!!
Hugs,
Jules