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My WH calls to let me know he picked up some gifts from my old co-workers. He has obviously been snooping around the house trying to find something to call me on. Well - I had packed his clothes up Sunday night (remember that post where I cried my eyes out?) and he found them. So he asked me if I wanted him to take them. Actually I really don't and I don't think it's wise for me at this point to say - yes take yo crap & get out. So I told him, no - actually I'm rearranging the closets (which is ACTUALLY true because I have some summer maternity clothes & sweaters I don't wear I need to get packed up).

He says "Well, some of those clothes were hanging up"
Me: "I know, but I'm trying to reorganize & I have some stuff in my closets I'm moving around too. As a matter of fact - look in the bedroom and you'll see where I've been cleaning out my closet"
H - "Well, I'm just saying tell me what you want me to do."
Me: "I'm not the one with a decision to make."
Then H goes into this long drawn out explanaiton of would I want anyone to keep me from my child, yadda. I'm like "No, but I don't think that's the issue. Fine you want the child to have a father figure. But caring for the OC doesn't mean caring for the mother."

Then he says I'm shutting him out. YA THINK! Bravo - give the man $200! Yes, I'm shutting everything you say out because I don't know you! You have been kidnapped by aliens & until the mothership returns with the man that looked at me 8 years ago even before our 1st date & says "I'm going to marry you" I will continue to protect myself from whatever it is you have to say. Then - my H is in my jewelry box and finds a man's ring that belongs to my sister's X-BF. Why I still have it, I have no idea! But everytime I look at it I think, I need to ask my sis about this ring. I assume he's checking to see if I wear my wedding ring! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> And yes, I do wear it because although it's crappy right now, I'm still a married woman. Anyway - I think he's checking to see if I'm having an A as well! HA! No sir. I've traveled that road once & let me tell you - it ain't one I plan on getting back on. I told my H "You know there's no one else. Never has been while we've been separated." I mean really. He pops up at the house so much how would I hide a man if there were one! This is not to say I haven't been hit on while I've been pregnant, but jeez - why add more confusion!

I asked my H if he was still seeing OW. He says no. Yeah right. I believe that like a hole in my head. I'm not going so far to say his fog is clearing because he still hasn't moved back in, but why would he ask me to leave his stuff? HUH? What am I the back up plan? Anyway - I just thought I'd share how I got caught putting up stuff. I was planning on taking his stuff out of the boxes & putting them back in the closets, but I've been too pooped to do it! It's hard being 8 1/2 months pregnant & trying to reorganize a house for baby! LOL