I know I don't know anything about what you really look like but I had a dream last night that I was watching Oprah Winfrey and they kept saying this is the infamous Catnip... They would say your real name but I don't remember what it was. You were on the show lobbying for a change in the CS system and showing tips for how BS's can cope with the after effects of the WS's affair. Some of the audience members were asking you tough questions (can't remember what they were exactly---you know how dreams can be) but I do remember one response from you was "I can get mean when I or my family is threatened." I remember they kept refferring to "Catnip" but never actually mentioned MB. It was a wierd dream I guess, but then again, I am sick right now so I am prone to have wierd dreams.

That's funny that you had that dream...I thought about several times of writing Oprah to discuss the CS system and my quest for fairness and I thought Catnip's example would be a prime example...none of us said that we wouldn't PAY...we just want to pay FAIRLY. It's amazing that you had that dream...should that be my confirmation to write to Oprah? LOL!

I hope you are feeling better.

Cheers,
Twiisty <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

Well, if you had me looking like Catherine Zeta Jones, you'd be close...hahahaha.

Actually, I was just alerted to this thread by Twiisty when she nudged me out of my cat-nap in the window sill.

I would never go on any show or be in front of any camera under any circumstances unless I could be behind one of those screens, a false identity and have my voice altered. My anonymity, and that of my situation is manadatory so I don't think anything like that would fly. Besides, these talk show hosts are all mewling about and have sympathy for OW's, while Betrayeds and their horrific situation is "invisible" to all the do-gooders. Just defending my/our position would be tantamount to spitting in the wind. We just don't count and are never considered into the equation and what this does to us and our families and dreams.

A & E contacted a lot of us a couple years ago for their program on infidelity and almost all of us refused to go on the air.

I think the only time I would be willing to make my identity known is if there was some serious legislative action and pending reform and it would all be on an obscure and boring government cable access no one looks at or sees while they quickly surf by to the Osbourns.

I am sorry you are sick! You must be having a hell of a fever to be having nightmares like this...hahaha. Chicken (my personal favorite) soup, plenty of liquids, lots of sleep and classical music to soothe the savage within.

Hope you recover quickly. The holidays are just around the corner.

Catnip =^^=

Let's see, in my dream you had shoulder length black hair, these electrifying catlike eyes...I THINK they were grey but they were shining like a cat's eyes do when they are in light, you were like 5'6"-5'8" tall and slightly overweight...not very, like maybe a size 16 or something. You were wearing a dark pantsuit. The thing I remember most is the cat-like EYES though. It was like I was hypnotied to the screen by the EYES.

I definately would not call that a nightmare but get this, I went to the Dr. this morning and he prescribed me some narcotic cough medicine and decongestant and an antibiotic (Upper respitory infection---I think that's just the army's term for a cold) and some of the side effects are hallucinations and nightmares. One of them causes diarea and the other one causes constipation. Maybe they'll cancel each other out. LOL

Well, that was scary.

Did someone describe me to you, like Julia? Is there a camera in my kibbles?

The only thing you get the buzzer on is the eye color...they're brown. I am 5-5. And, I am a size 16 a lot of the time, unfortunately. There are a wide range of sizes in my closet because I drop and gain quickly, depending on whether I am in crisis (no food), in health mode (fruit and veggies and lots of workouts at the gym) or need comfort (pecan pie, meatloaf, mashed potatoes). I really indulge during the holidays and I cook and bake a lot this time of year, tasting everything. But, it is all that fur. Get me wet and I am not that fluffy. Really.

Bipolar says I am luscious, so we will go with that rather than chub, OK?

Enjoy your hallucinations...I would prefer them over diarreha any day.

Catnip =^^=

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