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At last press release
<small>[ February 08, 2004, 01:02 AM: Message edited by: Lovely ]</small>
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Yeah, it could...but it is a sweet sentiment and kind of you to want to do this for the OC. Maybe if you included a note from you to reiterate that this is for the benefit of OC and not to be misinterpreted as anything other than that, she might get the picture. It might help if the note is in your handwriting.
It is interesting that you were once a OW and yet desire NC for your husband's OC. Not trying to get into any debate here since we have a strong one going on another thread...just find it interesting because I have always said that any OW in this situation might feel the same as a BW desiring NC. At any rate, I am impressed with your compassion.
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Thanks Catnip! !! : )
<small>[ February 08, 2004, 01:02 AM: Message edited by: Lovely ]</small>
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Send a gift but make it very clear who it is from and that there are no hidden intentions behinde it. The gift is for the child and that is it.
I to dod this in the begining with my H oc. I had a cute stuffed dog sent to his house for christmas and on the gift tag I had my kids name writtne down wishing him a merry christmas. Xow called and thanked me and knew my H had nothing to do with it.
I do think in lots of these situations it would work alot better knowing for a fact that the OP was not still pursuing the married person.
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