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Re: N/C is a crock for the child
#825091 12/29/03 08:26 PM
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Originally posted by Still Trying:
N/c is a crock for the child.

NC is perfect for my children. At least for now. They are adopted and have NC with their birth parents, for very very good reasons.


It hurts to know that you are married to a lying sack of ****, but we all better get used to it. We know what they are capable of and stay anyway.

<img border="0" title="" alt="[Mad]" src="images/icons/mad.gif" /> YOU may choose to call your WH ugly names, and that's your business.... but MY WH is a wonderful man who has made up for his affair in a million ways.

Your anger is not resolved.
Re: N/C is a crock for the child
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my question is how can nc possibly be a crock for oc? why would any mother try and force contact on someone with her child whose heart wasn't into it?
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Pops how true that statement is.
Re: N/C is a crock for the child
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What I don't understand is why this NC issue is brought up over and over again. Why can't people understand that what may be good for one may not work for another. Just because one family has a great experince with contact doesn't mean the next will.

I feel like this thread is almost like compairing it to adoption. Does the adopted child feel abandoned? The thing is people are trying to do what is best for all involved. None of us know excatly what the situation is for the other.
Re: N/C is a crock for the child
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***edited****by Justuss***

Still Trying****

A reminder**MB Policy** "You agree, through your use of this service, that you will not use this BB to post any material which is knowingly false and/or defamatory, inaccurate, abusive, vulgar, hateful ,harassing, obscene, profane, threatening, invasive of a person's privacy, or otherwise violative of any law."

This is a SUPPORT forum for those dealing with a child as a result of an affair. There is enough hurt and pain on this forum without adding more.

Any questions or comments, feel free to email me.

Justuss2@aol.com

<small>[ December 30, 2003, 12:18 AM: Message edited by: Justuss ]</small>
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