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I guess I'm hard headed. Even after my husband and two children moved out, I continued to have hope. I have not even been allowed to see the kids very much, every other week for a few hours. Hubby talks about coming home and his words are "I'm working on it". Yesterday I got a wake up call. My little boy said "Mommy I made you a Mother's Day card, but I'm gonna give it to X because she's gonna be my new mommy." My spirit died right there. After all I've done and given, here is my reward. Hubby says he doesn't know why he said that and that it isn't that way... blah blah blah. I'm sick. I'm tired. I'm concentrating on the most precious part of life, my 5 month old. I only wish I'd chosen a different father for my little blessing.
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So sorry to hear what you are going through. I wish I could say more. My only advice is to love you little one as much as you can and be strong. Don't let your H's evil ways hurts you. Keep telling your child how much you love them and how important they are to you. Good luck.
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Amiee,
Reading things like this just breaks my heart.
It makes me wonder if they may have some memories of OW and then moving in with you and H.
I know that you love those 2 little darlings. And I know that it is killing you, not knowing what is going on with them.
As LMF said, continue loving them. Letting them know what they mean to you, even though you don't see them very often.
You and your family (all of them) are continually in my prayers.
Hugs to you, my dear friend...
Stacia
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