O.k. So oW gave us a list of stuff she needs. She is telling H she is still leaving. My MIL thinks she is leaving the second week in this month (which would be next week). We gave her everything she asked for except for the baby bottles. she says she needs those as soon as possible. She did tell H thank you for the clothes and shoes we bought her. H made the comment to me maybe I can buy her one more box of diapers to. I told im thats up to you.

All I can say is I hope she really leaves and she is not playing with us. SOmetimes I think my marriage would be better if she really leaves. She has been saying for like a month or two now she is leaving but I guess this month it is for real all I can do is wait and see. But I haev still not been able to see this little Girl and I doubt I am going to get to meet her before she leaves. She says when she leaves she will be gone until next year and then she will only come back for like a month and then leave again, my question is WHY COME BACK AT ALL THEN? You know what is the point in coming back for a month and then leaving, so H can see Kayla and then get heartbork again when she leaves that is BS. As i state the OW says she cant come around me until she is old enough to talk, which is a bumch of BS if you ask me.

Other than that things have been pretty good between me and H. I think he is really finally starting to see how hurt I am (whcih is a good thing). I just want things to get back to as normal as possibe.

Hi Lonely,

I am so sorry. I think you should be able to see OC. It is bull. I think your husband should stand up to OW and get visitation legal. Even if she leaves it will still be difficult. My OW is three hours away and husband went to see her once while she was pregnant. I will not put up with that again.