Here in our home!!!!!
We talked at visitation yesterday, we invited xow to see our home, and wa la, he's here!!!!

That rocks Angel! Did you have him overnight?

No, not yet need to get a few baby things first.
We are taking care of him while she's at work.
I'm holding him while I type this. We are taking care of him here when she works, daycare is closed,etc.

Oh, hi little one! Are you being a good boy?

Give a nuzzle on his little neck for me. I love baby necks.

- Kimmy

DE-IM me some time

Or you could email me (I can't IM from work...and my puter at home is wonky)....

niosgirlatyahoodotcom

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cool

have you tried a disk cleanup or disk fragment?

how do you IM, is it on msn or...?

WE have SBC DSL now & guess what? Our phone line goes DEAD! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> All the phone people are quite perplexed as to WHY our DSL is working & not the phone....argh..........so this is my only link to the outside world!!!!!!! LOL

AND they can't be around to service BEFORE this next weekend, hopefully!

funny hanh? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" />
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So how did THAT work out angel?

Don't forget to get it in writing. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

xoxoxoxoxoxox
kt

Yeah, but when I de-frag it goes into a continious loop and locks up...it's totally hosed.

The hd needs to be scrubbed.

KT, it's aol(aim) that I IM on.
He's here still. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />
So far so good, with him being here. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

DE, try the disk clean up first. If you need to know how to do that let me know, I told a lady on Pogo games how to do it while we where on line,lol.

umm, why would you let her in your house?

Angels....YAHOO!!

Isn't it wierd having a baby around again? I know how you feel about going out buying baby stuff again. I was running around buying all sorts of stuff the day before our first visitation. We were lucky...the judge granted overnights right away.

Does the baby have that "lovely" baby smell? mmmmmm

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ent

smurfgirl, we let her come in to see the cleanliness of our home in order for her to be comfortable in having him in our home.
that and she sees how in love h and I are with each other.

Ent, yes he does have that wonderful smell.
It was really sad to have him go home tonight we had such a fun,truly enjoyable day with him.

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Angels congrats!!!!! I hope this is a start of a wonderful realtionship (with all). You know what I mean.

De: You may have to many pop ups coming up and screwing up your regristy. You need to download like adaware and get rid of it. I was having major problems too and downloaded these free programs and I run them every week and if on alot every few days.

NTMO,thanl you, he sure is a joy to be around.

Angel, I'm not meaning to be mean but I don't see the relevance. That woman does not belong in your house. I know it might stink not to get things your way as far as visits go, but if you lower yourself for one thing, then there will come another when she has demands. She has gone way beyond walking all over you, why add insult to injury? You can't take short cuts in life, you got to stick to your guns. And really do you want someone who has been so disctructive in your life a welcome mat to your door? I don't think so, the cost is too great. Sorry if this isn't coherent, but it is late. Don't let her degrade you like that, you are bigger then that.

Smurf,
First, she is not a welcomed visitor to OUR Home,
at this time we don't have a carseat;(we will be getting one soon though) so it is only temporary she is pu/do at our home.
I don't feel I am lowering myself, rather I feel quite the opposite ,as she is seeing us together in our home showing our love to each other and to our family. In fact We feel the better person because she is no longer a threat to our marriage. She is to call before coming to our home regardless if it's visitation or we are taking care of him while she's at work. Even if she wants us to take care of him she must call and ask first,and depending on what we have going on we may say yes or no, as we won't change our life to accomodate hers, our life as a couple and our family come first. So, No, she is not walking all over us, and I truly appreciate your caring and concern, you are a true friend for that.
We H and I discuss everything and decide together; hence POJA.
The only reason I let her in my home is the same as anyone would when it comes to childcare.babysitting. To show her a clean safe environment for the child. I personally would demand to see the environment my children where to be in, and they are 9 & 11. She will never be a welcomed visitor or a friend for ovious reasons.
I hope I was able to answer your queston completly and if you need to feel free to ask more.
I just wanted to share this, if it wasn't for God and my faith in him I wouldn't have come as far as I have in many situations in my life, when it came to counsiling I/WE went through our church for christian counsuling, tried others but they where no help.
Feel free to IM me or email me, info. is below.

Baby Elijah's ecocardiogram result are back, he's fine! Thanks for your prayers!

congradulations! Glad the little guy is okay.

Pats on the back for being a great step-mom,
behaving with class and dignity.