We had the lunch I wanted to have yesterday. It went really weel. She discussed things that she had to do at work. We eventually got to dicsussing time off. I have a floating holiday to burn before the end of March. I asked if we could take that day off together. She DIDN'T turn me down, BUT she asked if we were doing this as friends. <P>Yet my heart is glad because if she holds true to form, I'm in like Flynn . She has called everyone she has slept with a friend at first. I can only see that I am depositing LU's like crazy. She is more relaxed than usual. I can only pray that she gets over this superiority thing she has forced on me. God is giving me loads of affirmations that I am doing what He wants me to do concerning her. Listened to the Bible Answer Man today and God spoke to me via the guest on the show. I plan on purchasing the book by the guest. The book is Pure Sex. It is about sex from a biblical perspective.<P><B>I DONE GOOD TODAY!!! It feels good to know that she thinks the drugs are working. She said she felt more relaxed and able to think more clearly. I was there for her today. I plan on doing what is best for her and the boys and thereby ME!!!!!</B><P>------------------<BR><B><I>God Bless,<BR>Rob</I></B><BR> regilmor@swbell.net

Kick @ss. Sorry for the language, but man it is so good to hear some good news today for a change. Keep it up, Rob.

Rob,<P>Sorry....Your post made me laugh out loud...the part about her calling everyone she has slept with a friend first! LOL! We have to find whatever humore we can here...<P>I hope you are in like "flint" and not "Flynn" 'cause Errol Flynn was gay!!! LOL!<P>You sound so wonderful and I am still praying for you! What are ya'll going to do on your day together????<P>Desiree<P>------------------<BR>"Life is made up, not of great sacrifices or duties, but of little things in which smiles and kindnesses and small obligations, given habitually, are what win and preserve the heart and secure comfort."<P>Sir Humphry Davy<BR>

Praise God for the babysteps!! My thoughts and prayers are with you <P>------------------<BR>"If you can learn from the mistakes of others, you won't have to make them youself."<P>lady_divine77@yahoo.com

Alright Rob....<P>I thought fromw your thread title typo you did something bad....W and I had Linch today...lol..of course I didn't think you strung her up...lol<P>Sounds like you've got a plan your working on...Keep making those deposits...<P>Bill<P>"Commit to the Lord whatever you do, and your plans will succeed." Proverbs 16:3<BR><P>------------------<BR>BB<BR>

<B>Desiree</B>,<BR>Our day together is breakfast, lunch, movie, go to the mall and get her something if I can work that much into the budget. The gift part may be left out but the rest is a definite. She says she doesn't like window shopping anymore. I loved it once I learned it was a way to spend time with her. When I had finally gotten the impatient body language under control she started having affairs and didn't want to go as much.<P>Didn't know Flynn was gay. Just remember hearing the part about him being a ladies man.<P>Thanks <B>Sparkydog</B>. No offense taken to the language. I know it was in love.<P><B>jamie-lee</B>,<BR>Thanks for the prayers. And yes, I cherish the tiniest steps. I cherish the fact that she hasn't left. I cherish the fact that she is seeing a pschologist and psychiatrist for her depression. Hopefully this will lead to discussions about her childhood and about the affairs so that she can forgive herself. I have. I just want the loving W that He said a man should have.<P><B>WilliamJ</B>,<BR>No it wasn't a typo. It went much better than I expected. We actually talked about things I didn't expect her to talk to me about. I only hope that now that as I become less and less an irritant that she will have more to talk to me about. I want her to know that I have been there for her all the time but had to correct errors I made because I didn't fully understand her.<P>------------------<BR><B><I>God Bless,<BR>Rob</I></B><BR> regilmor@swbell.net

Rob,<P>There is alot you can do for "cheap"...plan a picnic or a park trip or something equally as inexpensive.<P>Have fun, Rob and RELAX!!!!! Desiree<P>------------------<BR>"Life is made up, not of great sacrifices or duties, but of little things in which smiles and kindnesses and small obligations, given habitually, are what win and preserve the heart and secure comfort."<P>Sir Humphry Davy<BR>