I get sooo mad at the OP affecting my life. I did nothing to this person. I went to church with him I prayed with and for him and he along with my wife are destroying my family. I shutter at their future.<P>If I new it wasn't healthly I would work to destroy them (pray for me ). But it is my guess they will do it to each other. Better to vent here than ...<P>1) email his web administrator and complain that he is sending too much or inappropriate personal emails. (BTW I wouldn't use your company email for personal emails :-) )<P>2) inform or have has family informed of his affair with a married women - work too destroy his reputation (that would be hard to do it is not that good)<P>3) send Vito over for a visit<P>4) Anonymously report him to the irs or local authorities for possible tax or other violations<P>5) still thinking...<P>Have a great weekend!!! I think I'll focus on the kids and doing the right thing and setting a good example... They have enough of the other kind of examples!<P>

Here's some more:<P> 1.Stick a"I Hate Cops"bumper sticker on the back of his car.<BR> 2.Enter every sweepstakes possible with his name,address,and phone number to get him on the mailing and phone lists.<BR> 3.Place flyers all over town telling about the big party with free beer at his house Friday night.<BR> 4.Go to a gay bar,and write"For a Good Time,Call..."with his name and number on the bathroom wall.<BR> 5.Write a letter from him to the local chapter of the Hell's Angels,telling them how he thinks they're a bunch of wusses.<BR> 6.Is he married?Send in a subscription form with his name and address for a hard-core porn magazine.<BR> 7.If he's married,have a woman friend call his house,asking for him.When his W says,"Who is this?",hang up real fast.<BR> 8.Place an ad in the classifieds,listing his house for sale at a ridiculously low price.Don't forget to mention the open house on Saturday and Sunday.<BR> 9.Call the local homeless shelter,senior center,and hospital,volunteering him for every night of the week.<BR> 10.Pick up a half a dozen boxes of Ladybugs at the local nursery,and put them in his car.<BR> <BR> Hope this helps! --Murph<BR>

T2,<P>Don't forget the good ol':<P>Paint a red A on his garage door<P>Put a warning sign to husbands at his neighborhood entrance about an adulterer living at his address<P>Find a bunch of stray cats and drop them off in his back yard<P>Put dogs there the next night<P>Send Vito back over<P>Have a good weekend. <P>Ed<BR>

Murphy you have thought about this a little more than me! I like the lady bug idea but do not think I want to get that close.<P>Ed I have thought about helping him build better relations with his neighbors but didn't think of (until now) helping him paint his garage to accomplish this .<P>A few days ago we were posting about using a lawn mower to help improve relations with the OP. Today I think large amounts of electricity for an extended period of time has possibilities.<P>-T2

You are too funny! I have to spend the day with my husband today and I think I might just vomit in his lap! He has been living with the ow for almost two weeks now. I called the insurance company to have them take one of our vehicles off our insurance and guess what? They wouldn't let me. Said my husband had called earlier in the day and had one of them taken off the insurance and added an Accura. The man went out and bought himself a car. I would like to know how he thinks he is going to be able to afford to pay for it when we can't pay the bills we have. We are not divorced and he is still responsible for the bills. His name is on them. I can't wait until he gets hit for child support and still has to pay the bills! I thought about filing for bankruptcy and taking him down with me and him losing his precious new car. Anyway, I am wondering if he is going to drive it over here today so I can see it. The jerk! This man has no class. I am sorry to say I don't know why I fought so hard to try and keep him. <P>~Woozy

Tried and proved! <BR>When she kept leaving messages to my H saying I was calling her ( which I wasn't ), I got tired of my own rule "no retaliation", but since I'm not a violent person, I mostly did a few harmless pranks. <BR>* paged her and left the number of:a male escort agency, the city dump, a few silly things like that.<BR>* She is vey interested in astrology, i used a friend p.o.box and sent her a flyer with an offer for free readings for a month. Of couse she accepted and I had great fun writing her horoscope.<BR>I did some other stuff but I don't even rememeber anymore, I didn't harm her in any way, but I did have fun <BR>Kat

OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH<P>Ilove these, I'm coping as I speak,(type)<P>MORE MORE <P>------------------<BR>Peg

I only have one fantasy that runs through my sick mind occasionaly but I would never really carry out.<P>I would sign an involuntary 302 mental commitment paper [Pennsy] stating that Brian [OP] threatened to kill me because he wanted my W for himself. Hey, paper trail to their relationship. Cell phone bills. Tape of them chatting and making date.<P>He would be put away in a psychiatric hospital for a minimum of 5 days. Obviously his first response would be anger, violent outbursts and denial probably winning him a few more days in the hospital with follow up care.<P>Just a fantasy, for now. <P>Zip<P>

Here's a site dedicated to devious little things like you have described. <A HREF="http://www.ekran.no/html/revenge/" TARGET=_blank>http://www.ekran.no/html/revenge/</A> I never plan to do any of these things, but it occasionally brings a smile to my face just knowing it could be done. Enjoy!!

Okay...I'm dying laughing here. I thought that I was the only one who thought up these crazy things.<P>I have so many......<P>Round up is great for practicing your writing style in the "yard". It is so nice to see the words form as each day passes.<P>Or maybe everytime you go to a fast food retseraunt...fill out an application for him/her. They seem to have so much extra time on their hands....maybe a part time job would do them so good.<P>I always like to help him out to stay physically fit......try filling out all of those free trial memberships to gyms. They will not leave you alone.<P>Road kill always makes a nice hood ornament.<P>To help them keep their minds going...all those free book offers.....get 3 for penny if you buy 12 at regular book prices. I'm sure he would love the cook books and romance novels.

Personally, I would like to do the same things that she does to me. Hang ups from a pay phone, but only when my H is there. Make HIM wonder who it is. (she did this to me and still does)<BR> Leave love notes to her from a "mystery man" on her car.<BR> Go to where she works and talk about all the "fun" me and H had when he was here visiting the kids. (making sure I'm within er shot)<BR> I have a friend who offered to help me with the pay phone calls.<P>Devious little tricks like that!<P>Mitzi<BR>

I would like for her to win the lottery. <P>No, I'm not nice. I've heard that lottery winners do the following:<P>1 move to a different state<P>2 get hounded by investors<P>3 make bad investments<P>4 loose all the money<P>5 file bankruptsy<P>6 live the rest of their miserable lives knowing what they had and they're now missing<P>7 loose ALL their friends<P>8 become lonely self loathing people<P>9 are too ashamed to return to the original home<P>I sure do wish she'd win the lottery!<P>Keo

I heard of a recent lawsuit for infidility. It appears that PhD researcher (department head) at John Hopkins had an affair with another man's wife. That man sued the researcher and won 45K. I think this was recently reported in the New York Times. Two things interest me about this story: 1) The fact that the betrayed won was so amazing it made the NY Times and 2) Perhaps this case will set some precendent and give the betrayed another legal avenue to pursue.<P>Just a thought.

Triuph2,<P>ROTFLMAO!!!!!!!!!<P>I like the Vito idea, I would also send his brother Sal for back-up......LOL<P>ROTFLMAO!!!!!!!!!!<P>Bill<P>------------------<BR>BB<BR>

Couldn't resist:<P>Have your friends chew massive amount of bubblegum. Throw the wads of chewed gum in the OP's driveway so that their vehicle will run over it whe backing out. This will result in a very "sticky situation". It will be fun watching the "clean-up" too!!<P>Wait until the OP's vehicle is parked in a public parking area. Remove the windshield wiper refill blades and place them on the hood of the auto. Make sure you do this on a rainy day. The OP will surely not be singing the old song "I Can See Clearly Now".<P>Actually, I don't think I would do any of these (except for maybe Vito) but it sure is therapy to dream.

Don't forget to send Vito's cusins Guido & Vinny along for the fun. The "family" gets upset when you leave someone out of the fun! (this is really funny to me... I have distant cousins named Vito, Vinny and Guido) Yes, I'm Italian. Yes, I have the temperment. <P>I've thought about calling her employer/HR, except that my X would get fired too, and then he wouldn't have the $ to pay me. <BR>It would amost be worth it..... ALMOST.<P>Love, Thoughts & Prayers,<BR>B<P>------------------<BR>There are deep sorrows and killing cares in life, but the encouragement and love of friends were given us to make all difficulties bearable. <BR>-- John Oliver Holmes<P>The opposite of love is not hate, it's indifference.<BR>-- Elie Wiesel<P><BR>

okay<BR>I can never pass up a revenge fantasy.<P>Leave business cards around town saying:<P>"Boldly go where so many men have gone before.<BR>(Married men included)<BR>Bimbo's name and phone#"<P>Put a bumper sticker on her truck that says:<BR>"Honk if you've had me"<BR>

Not highly devious but it did give me a moment of delightful retribution....<P><BR>I dumped her picture from my casche over and over and over and over (Well you get the idea) Then I had to stop obsessing so decided Heidi Fleiss of the internet (as I so affectionately call her now. Ok that's mean) would fall to her own demise through her own behaviors. Eventually I plan to erase her as permanently as I can from my memory until she is no more than a pitiful flash on the movie reel of my life. The ultimate retribution.<P>"I will think of you gone, and then I will think on you no more." Wonderful Rob Roy line.<P>Sorry for the sinister side. It pops out every once in awhile.

In light of my situation I would like to change mine:<P>I would like to go up to her and shake her hand and say "Thank you for getting rid of my garbage for me!!!"

I came across a good article putting this topic in perspective. It also has some interesting links.<P> <A HREF="http://divorcesupport.about.com/people/divorcesupport/library/weekly/aa031898.htm?rnk=r1&terms=revenge" TARGET=_blank>http://divorcesupport.about.com/people/divorcesupport/library/weekly/aa031898.htm?rnk=r1&terms=revenge</A>