I have waited until today to post this, I was soo angry and worried that I thought I should calm down.<P>Saturday my daughter (3 yr) was having breakfast with M (lives with w) and out of the blue she passed out. W barely caught her in time from hitting the floor. She was unconscious for 30 seconds or so, then woke up. W freaked and took her into the doctor. This was in the morning. I found out at 7 pm in the evening. I was sooooo mad. My W went to the doctor, went to the OM's and they went swimming. I couldnt believe how selfish she was, unconsiderate of my feelings.<P>My D has to go in for some tests on her heart and her brain to look for abnormalities. She has no history in either of our families for any of this.<P>And my wife couldn't pick up the freaking phone and call me. I would have met her at the doc's office in a flash. W called her mom and I think that is why she tried calling me back to apologize. I just couldn't believe it! I asked her if she would like to know if it happened when D was with me. Of course she said yes.<P>I almost said, what, was I going to have to learn about this in the diary we keep on the kids? (we send a journal back and forth with the kids).<P>Sunday I went out skating with them all, Megan looks good and healthy. I just worry about her alot now. I miss them all, I wish W would give it a chance.