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Today I was talking with the mediator in our divorce. She let it slip that she got the impression that his (Hubby and OW's) relationship was not thriving. Also she suggested that he had probably found that the grass wasn't greener on the other side.<P>My question to her was "Why would he continue with the divorce?" Her reply was "Who knows?"<P>I must admit that this is good news to some extent, but my best friend suggested that this may be something he's doing to try and hang on to her as she may be ready to dump him. That really doesn't make me feel better.<P>Does anyone have any ideas as to what could be going on? This really doesn't make me feel any better.<P>Thanks.<P>Martha<P>
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Martha,<P>Be careful...<P>I've seen many times where the attorney or mediator thought the WS/OP relationship was failing... only to be dead wrong...<P>If it isn't wrong... the WS often out of shear stubbourness... go on with the divorce.<P>Others?...<P>Jim <BR>
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Hi Jim,<P>Long time no see from me huh!<P>Martha, <P>Please be careful> I question a mediator who would 'let it slip ' at this point, you don't need any more confusion. I agree, I thought everything was coming to an end a few times with H and his OW but in the end, it went full force again. Be careful with this. Prayers to you both, Dana<BR>
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