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Hi All,<P>I've been thinking about my situation all day and I've been trying to ask myself do I still even love my H. That brought me to ponder just what constitues love anyway? I think I have an idea what I feel love is but I was wondering if anybody else has any input into what they think love is. If anybody has read my posts before you may relize that I am a very philosophical person who ponders on things way to much sometimes. (I may be philosophical but I'm a rotten speller and typer ![[Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]](http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/images/icons/smile.gif) )<P>Thanks,<P>Jill
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Hi Crazy,<BR>Years ago I had written down definitions of love that I read somewhere(can't remember where).<BR>Love is caring as much for the aims and well-being of another person as you do about your own aims and well-being.<BR>Love endures. It can be projected into the future, where it enhances life plans, rather than destroying them.<BR>Love facilitates the growth of the lovers, BOTH lovers, not one at the expense of the other.<BR>To keep love alive, one doesn't need to work at it but to play - to pursue new learning, start new projects, respect each other and to give each other room.<BR>I can't give anyone credit for these pearls of wisdom b/c I didn't write down the source.<BR>I hope this answers your question or give you some food for thought.<BR>Peace and love,<BR>Ronnie<BR>
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Hi Jill,<P>Me again! Just poking in on you. I do think you love your H. I think he has alot of issues that he needs to work through.<P>I know this is a horrible place for you to be right now- I'm so sorry.<P>I also know you are a fighter, Jill, and no matter what happens, you will make it!<P>Sorry, didn't answer your question; just wanted you to know I care about you!<P>Love ya,<BR>Cheryl
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