Found a phone number this morning, can you say TRIGGER?!?!? So I did a reverse phone lookup (I LOVE the internet), and surprise surprise, the woman's name was Janine (the name of my H's fat, ugly, disgusting Roseanne-Barr wanna-be "friend"/EA/PA (?) ) My H had said that he didn't have her number. So he calls, and I calmly ask him about it, he says he doesn't know. I say that's a coincidence, because that phone number is listed under a Janine *****. He says "I don't know a Janine *****." I say, "what's your Janine's last name?" He said "it's **********, and her phone number isn't what you said, it's ***-****." I was very calm on the phone said okay, and that was that, but now I will go off.<P>AAAAAAHHHHHHHHH!!!!!! First of all, it took him MONTHS to remember MY last name!!! If I were to ask him what my maiden name was, he probably wouldn't remember. But this fat @$$ &***&^%% *&^%^% WHORE he knows for 3 $#%^^#$# weeks, he can remember HER last name, number, etc. I am so mad right now I can't see straight!!! PLUS he went over to Willie's last night to pick up tools and our BBQ, but I can't help but wonder if Fatty was there. Probably was, if she knew my H was coming. And yes, I did write the number down. Part of me wants to call her and tell to step off or I'm going to stomp a mudhole in her fat @$$ and walk it dry (sorry, Southern thing). I know that's not wise - I did that with the last OW. I went to her place of employment, and ended up sending her to the hospital. The only reason I didn't get arrested was the security guard was a very close friend of mine. But STILL - I know it's not worth it, but a good scrap sounds like a wonderful release for my frustrations. I can't believe my dumb@$$ H actually TOLD me her phone number! ARGH!!! Sorry, I'm venting, I wouldn't risk getting arrested when I have a toddler at home (unless she starts something.) But I used to work at City Hall right across the street from where she lives, and my mom is in a *very* powerful position, so my cop buddies there are now watching her since she's out at the bars all the time, and the SECOND they see her get into her car, BAM, DUI! I know, it's wrong, but my taker is demanding a *little* revenge.<P>On the plus side, my appt with Jennifer is tonight, so the timing is good. But I needed to vent NOW since I have to see my H in a few minutes, and I don't want to LB. Thanks!

Isnt it nice to be able to vent to someone. i do that here to.

Carolina Belle -<P>I don't know, I think it's just me and the "southern-thing," but your venting posts - while I know you're hurting, and I don't mean to offend you, but they crack me up. . .I know I have said this on more than one occasion - but at least you still have your sense of humor. hang in there and keep venting here. . .