My H has left OW has told her to leave him alone. Has all mailed forwarded to our house and all cloths here and stuff here. He spends 2-3 nights here also. He travels alot with his job and is out the other nights. This is what he tells me that he still is not for sure that he wants to be with son and I. He just not for sure at this point. H thinks he needs some time to himself. If we do get back together we will be moving about 7 hours away from all family and friends. Pretty much starting over. That really scares me, but I realize that has to happen for a marriage to survive. Plus that is in the center of his territory he has 8 states. I never realized that having him kinda in my live would be so hard. I always thought a little was better then none but boy is it hard. Can any tell me if they have experienced this also. I really feel that H would have never brought his stuff back here if he didnt feel something for me. Any opionions on this. I guess im searching for any advice or any ones experiences on this. Please keep us in your prayers Im keeping everyone here in mine.]<P>Thanks

{{{tigger}}}:<P>I'm afraid I don't know your whole story, but it does sound encouraging from what you've said here, I think.<P>The best question you can ask yourself is, "What do I want?" Before you can begin on a policy of joint agreement, you must be sure you know what it is that you really want. That's your starting position and then you work toward one you can both live with. <P>This sentence worries me:<BR> <BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR>This is what he tells me that he still is not for sure that he wants to be with son and I.<HR></BLOCKQUOTE><BR>If he doesn't want to be with you and your son, why would moving seven hours away save the marriage?<P>I guess a question I would be asking myself if I were in your shoes is, "Is this man really wanting to be my husband, or is he thinking my home makes the best hotel until 'something better' comes along?"<P>What do you think, tigger? Is this a good sign?<P>Hang in there. --HBC