Well Sorry I have not written in a while, everything was going okay thing it crashed. H is back to OW so I have once again distanced myself. H is 1800 behind in child support. What gives them the right to be behind on support and still have visitation rights, maybe if it was no pay no son I would get my money. Its not the issue of the money either, D and I have my folks and H folks who are very willing to help us, Thank God he gave us them. H forgot to shut off cell phone and I over heard a conversation about how he needs to come and bet the H-ll out of me. Why its beyond me. Exept H is mad because I will not just roll over and play died. He has caused me to loose my position at work because he will not leave me alone. Even when i just hang up on him. He told me he was happy because of this. He once agin is full of anger. When he is this way I do not want S around him. Well it been real hard the last 2 weeks here so your prayers are greatly needed.<P>Thanks Michelle

I'm so sorry. Prayers going up.<P>{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{michelle}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}<P>------------------<BR>Lor<BR>"A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger."<BR>(Proverbs 15:1).

Michelle,<P>You have my prayers for you... and your son too.<P> <P>Jim

hi tigger,<BR>(((((hugs)))))<BR>Are you taking his bodily threats to you seriously? Give it some thought okay. I would not want you to ignore some of these warning signals, then have something happen.<BR>Back with ow? Yuck. <BR>I am glad to hear you have a good support system. Plan a or plan b? <BR>cl

The voive mail has OW on it saying that he needs to come bet me up and he agrees. How sick. Still havent figured out what i have done to deserve this. My h is very sick and OW is letting him be that way. Plan B again I guess the last time we did this he came around a little bit then fell off the deep end. He has to pick S up at my moms house. I guess this is my way to protect myself from being hurt. He has a power over me that I can not explain. Thanks for the prayers and the caring thoughts. <P>Michelle

Hi TIgger,<BR>please be careful. He is unstable and I am worried abt your safety.<BR>Have you changed the locks? If not, it is something you need to do. Do not take these kinds of threats lightly. <BR>Are you in counseling? Your child? Look at why you are in love with someone that abuses you. Tigger, you do have to live this way.<BR>I would definitely go to plan b. You should not be alone with this man or give him the opportunity.

Please record that voice mail...<BR>...and keep a copy with a relative and your attorney (if you have one)!!!<P>ASAP!<P><B>cl</B> is right... <B>change the locks</B>!!!<P>