Firstly, I went in and changed my profile - after I figured out how to check profiles and get in to them. I just said "Alberta" - probably better, eh? When I registered,this was the first board I've ever been on so kind of naive!<P>Well, if the OW in your "old" life actually lived/lives in my town - then it is doubtful. My H's mistake lives in the town 15 miles south of us - where he has had a business for 15 + years. Don't need to be too secretive as the entire population of 500 people in that small town knew about it - along with a great portion of the population in our town - along with my father-in-law, etc. - everyone but ME. I harbor just a tad bit of bitterness over all these "wonderful" people I have know for years not helping me out! I sure wish it had happened in a bigger, anoymous centre - I hate going anywhere here or in the town to the south!!<P>I think she is about 40 or 41 (guess), has five kids - the oldest about 13 or 14 and the youngest a few years old. I'm pretty sure she has either a sister or a very good friend in the city an hour north of us she spends a fair amount of time with. She doesn't work - maybe the odd job - but we taxpayers get to pay for her and her H to have nothing to do but disrupt and destroy lives. Fairly confident that my H isn't the only one in our area.<P>If you want to pursue this further - we sure can. I've thought about this a fair bit today - would almost be kind of neat as we both would realize that the OW is as slimy as we would like to believe!! That it wasn't particularly that our H's were her dream - they happened to be there and vulnerable.<P>Sudz<P>[This message has been edited by Sudz (edited November 28, 2000).]<p>[This message has been edited by Sudz (edited November 28, 2000).]

Sudz<BR>Sorry I didn't get back to you yesterday. I don't get on the computer much anymore.<BR>Sounds like they aren't the same OW. My H's bimbo is single, no children and older. <BR>I did see your profile a couple of weeks ago and had been wondering. It really did seem possible. No real big towns around here. <P>The bimbo does live in your town but actually lived farther south till my H moved her there in '98.<P>I'm so sorry that so many knew and didn't help you. I don't think anyone there knows about my H and his bimbo. Kind of bothers me that she got away with it. No one knew he was married so they could do what they pleased. We live North of the city. Long drive for my H.<P>Just rambling...I wouldn't be suprised if these OW know each other though. I know the OW in my H's life is slimy. I'm betting yours is too.