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Well, My subject line pretty much says it all. For anyone who ever has those nagging little doubts and talks yourself into believing you're the crazy one, in my experience, your suspicions are for good reason. My H proved it once again last night. (D-day #4 with same OW). I think thats the last straw. This camel's back is broken.
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Yes i have had several of those nagging doubts about H wereabouts. He is truck driver for his own company. Had many D-D"S since first. She is a client having freight for him to move. Has chosen to sneak up to her city on several occasions to talk about business. He has even had several cell phone conversations with ow. Always lies even lied when I had absolute evidence. Can you believe how arrogant these people are, said I was imaging things. sorry very angry<BR> <P>------------------<BR>Deb
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I am not sure abt following suspicions because for many yrs I looked at facts and failed to heed feelings! One thing I learned from this affair mess is that I need to hear myself.<BR>Now I look at my heart, listen to my soul. It is such a GREAT feeling to listen to oneself!!! What I find is not always pleasant, but the awakening is wonderful.<BR>(((hugs))) cl
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Thanks for the replies. I agree, cl, about listening to yourself. I tell myself that after each and everytime but I think I have been wanting so badly for my feelings to be wrong that I have ignored them time and again. What gets me and I don't know if I'm lucky or what but he's still here, telling me he loves me and that he doesn't know whats wrong with him. He also says he loves her, but now he hates her but thats just because he sees her out dancing and coming on to other men. All this while her husband stays home and keeps the kids.
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