Sorry, guys no update. Meant to post before we left for KL but it was so off then on again it was confusing.<P>H returned WED morning, or late Tue night. OS returned Wed afternoon. We all left early evening for KL. Had a huge fight with OS about going, thought everything would be over about this, but H finally said we are going.<P>Nothing while we are gone, didn't really do anything but YS & got to swim. <P>We returned today YS asked H, if we could join the American Club, H gave the reasons to $$$$$, (his company doesn't pay for it) (most of our stuff here is paid by company, house, car, utilities, school fees,) but then said well maybe when house sells & our van is still there. I made the comment maybe we should give the van to his sister (she never has a decent car) & she could trade it in for something, he said thought about it. If we are leaving in June, why get rid of the van...<P>He is leaving late Sat night for course in the Netherlands, so I don't know if we will talk or not.<P>He did bring back my entire list from the states, even my Nora Roberts Bk.<P>Just to let you know how small our world is: I walked up to catch the airport train in KL, a man turned around, both of our jaws dropped, man we went to church with back in the states. I take him a\back into the restaurant I had just left to where my family was. Think H was a little embarrassed, (he has not had to face many of our church friends, this was some one I know he respected) After we parted ways, my H says to OS, See you always need to watch what you are doing, as you never know who you will run into.<P>Basially I have no idea if we will talk before he leaves or not, who knows. I do think he was in the states longer than he led me to believe but I have not clue.<P>Thanks for the prayers & wondering.<BR>