Well, there isn't any update. H was here for about 90hrs & never brought up the subject. There were actually times when there was no one here but us. I have bitten my nails to the bone to keep from asking. I had decided that he is planning on us returning to the states in June, so I am/was going to let him bring up the topic, but he never did.<P>I did ask him about job interview, if he was going to take it, no, he didn't like it.<BR>Made a few comments about a few things I like for the house, nothing negative, like don't do it. <P>I don't know what he is planning or if he is just too much of a wimp (he hate that label) to tell me to my face. <P>He is gone to Amsterdam for the wk for some course, he wasn't happy about it, said he was tired of traveling, told him to quit, he made a face, I told him well that is what you want to do anyway.<P>I know that he wasn't honest about when he left the states (I snooped) but nothing to point to what he maybe planning. <P>I was so ticked off by the time he left that when he said see you next wk, I almost replied if you are lucky.<P>Besides taking us to KL for a couple of days, he did do one other nice thing for me. He went to the grocery store & bought my meat & some other stuff. Now that might not seem like to much, but when you don't drive here (they drive on the wrong side, plus there are these motorcyles, plus I'm not on the insurance),you have to worry about how much you can carry home if you don't get a taxi, & the provsioner doesn't bring fresh meat. Now if only I can get to the wet market this wk for fish but that is another story.<P>Okay, thanks for letting me vent... until the next time....<BR>