He told her, he told her, he told her!!!!!<P>He told her he was with me last night, he told her he's not ready to not be with me. She's pissed, I love it!<P>He told me, she's not really my type, I got in way to deep with her, he didn't mean for it to go that far. He's not ready to be involed with her kids. He's been seeing things about her that he doesn't like anyhow. He told me she doesn't even know him. He said he's very glad that we talked. He said he feels set free now. I thanked him for letting me tell him those things. I asked him if he was ok & he said yes. I told him I care about him & I worry about him and that I know he's having a really hard time right now. He said "Ditto". He's going to take my girls shopping for new jeans this week.<P>WAT & Lonesome, thanks for bringing me back down to earth a little bit on my last post. I know it's not anywhere near over, but I'm just so happy that it took a step! But you're right I need to slow down & continue being paitent. I'll do that tomorrow, today I'm flying!!!!!!!!!!! BTW-I do realize that there could be some backward steps too, if he would contact her again & also I don't know if she's going to try to contact him. Again, I'll think about that tomorrow.

Plan A your heart out! Be prepared for some steps backward, but try not to Lovebust! Let the OW do it! Sounds like she is doing a fine job of it already!