My H had been trying to find a window of opportunity to leave OW for the past week. He finally did it yesterday after several failed efforts previously and left her a no contact letter. She has paged him and called his cell phone a number of times, but nothing like the calling and searching that went on last Thursday when he left without telling her anything. <P>I posted last night about how his family went kind of crazy last night, everyone at each other's throats. When I woke up today, my 17 yr. old niece was gone. Most of her clothes are gone and her boyfriend and two best friend are gone too. She was very angry at me last night about H coming home and said that she didn't want to live here anymore or with anyone in her family. They're driving her old car, but none of them has a driver's license. They're not at any of their friends houses. I called her boyfriend's mom who lives about 5 hours from here. She's heard nothing and now she's worried too.<P>My H had to drive to a city an hour away today and I'm having panic attacks about where the kids are and what he's doing.

Wow, that is a tough situation, but JMO, forget about what husband is doing, and concentrate on finding your daughter to talk to her! KIDS SHOULD ALWAYS COME FIRST, KIDS WILL ALWAYS BE YOUR BABIES, SPOUSES MAY NOT ALWAYS BE YOUR SPOUSE. Concentrate on your daughter, push all that other BS to the side for now, do a SCARLET O'HARA and think about that another day! GOOD LUCK and PLEASE KEEP US UPDATED!

dear trying, nothing to report yet. I've talked to all her friends, all her boyfriend's friends and family and no one knows anything. I'm about to call the police. I hate to do it because they're going to get in serious trouble, but I can't go through the night not knowing where they are and not doing anything.