Hi,<BR>S. Harley advised me to contact MIL re: finances.<P>H. has placed us in financial devastation because he has to support his other "LIFE" instead of his family--foreclosure on our domicile and bankruptcy. <P>I found out MIL called Finance co. Why? Don't know.<P>Steve said call her and ask her for advice.<P>I just don't know if I can do it. At Christmas, MIL sent me a card and told me H's life is perfectly normal and Mine is a mess.<P>Now, let me ask you this? Who is being rational and who is being irrational? Is blood thicker than water?<P>I just am not sure that his advise is one I can follow.<P>Opinions, suggestions? elo