Hi ! I am here again( old user's name trying to live)<BR>I have been in NY for a week now as my H ask me to give him a little time and space(Pls. see my post under G.question 2 for back ground). Things seem have some hope for the first time(D-day one month ago). He was really pushing a big-D and said he had made up his mind to do so. But after I stay here for a week, he told me that he has not made a decision yet, one day he think one way and another day the other. He also said he miss me and has not go out on a date with the OW who he work together( he admit to me it is hard).<BR>My birthday is coming up next weekend. Although he is not too sure about that, but finally we both agree that I should come home for my birthday. I would rather go home Easter weekend(3 days weekend), but he said not yet, he will miss me more if I do not go home this weekend.<BR>I need your advice about what should I do when I go home( keep on plan-A?), how long should I stay? or just some thoughs will be great help. Thank you al for listening.