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#909374 04/19/01 09:16 PM
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I'm confused - does the 6-24 months for an affair to end mean:<P>1. from the time the affair began?<P>2. from dday?<P>3. from the time the WS actually leaves to be with OP?

#909375 04/19/01 09:29 PM
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I believe that timeframe is from the point of discovery - a lot of the "dangerous appeal" is gone once the A is out in the open.

#909376 04/20/01 01:26 AM
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Dear Liv,<P>From what I have read, I believe it is with d/d. The one measuring is the BS. <P>L.

#909377 04/20/01 07:28 AM
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Please, please, please don't get hung up on the time frame prediction. Needless to say, this is not an exact science given the significant variables. So details such as when the clock should start are really unimportant.<P>WAT


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