We got back home yesterday from a wonderful weekend in Boston (see my other posts). We had such a good time, I didn't want to come back home. It was almost like it was not reality, it was so wonderful.<P>H had been there for the entire week for business, so I flew out on Friday morning. He met me at the airport, and we went to our hotel from there. We stayed at a very romantic, out of the way, little hotel that he had picked out. After we arrived, he told me that he really had missed me over the last week, took my face in his hands, and told me that he loved me. It's been almost 2 years since I've heard those words come out of his mouth in that way. Sure, before he started his affair, he would usually say "me, too" if I said it first, but NEVER said it to me first. It was a wonderful moment---one that I've been waiting a long, long time for.....<P>We really didn't do a whole lot other than walk around, see some of the touristy things of Boston, and enjoy being together. It was very relaxing---exactly what we needed. It's kind of a downer to come back home and realize that reality is still here. Oh well, it always will be. Now I just have to figure out how to purge the memories of the affair from my mind......

Great news...I'm happy for you, and glad to hear that it went well. Of course these things are inspiration to us all.

Isn't it wonderful to hear those words unsolicited?? Praise God. Keep up the good work!!

have tears of joy running down my face for you.<P>just keep building those memories.....

J - my fondest wishes for your recovery. You are truly an inspiration. Please bottle whatever antidote you used and share some with us?<P>Dave

Thanks to all of you for the kind words. I'd bottle it in a heartbeat if I could, only I don't know what it is. Faith and prayer are two of the main components, though, that I can assure you.<P>I'm so glad that I can be an inspiration and encouragement to others. I needed this site for a year before things turned around for me, and I hope that I can help others as much as they have helped me!!<P>I love and pray for all of you daily.....

Hurtinginil,<P>I am so incredibly happy for you! You've waited a long time for this happiness. I'll be thinking of you and your family.

Hurtinginil,<P>Wonderful!!! Yes...faith and prayer are a major part. I believe it happened for me that way too.

I Told you Boston is wonderful in the Spring time.

I read the thread before you left... <P>...and now to read this...<P>Lovely.

Sorry it took me so long to reply, hon - things have been kind of crazy on this end. Congratulations!!! It's about time!

How wonderful for you both. This gives me so much hope. I'm waiting for those wonderful words - it's been almost a year now.

Yes, Boston was absolutely gorgeous on Saturday. Perfect for just walking and exploring.....<P>I am so glad that this gives others the hope that you need to continue fighting for your marriage. It's a long and brutal fight, but well worth it in the end!