Hi all,<P>Finally made it home in one piece. The weather here has been beautiful. Need to take advantage of all that gorgeous sunshine. Been afraid to be too happy. <P>Hi Unb,<BR>I shared your post with H. He has not read it yet. He went to work today and maybe working late. Boss is offering a bonus if they finish their project today. It is a good thing he is keeping busy. <P><BR>Sing,<BR>Thanks for your support. You have always been there for me. I do appreciate it. <P>Tulip,<BR>Thanks, I did get a chance to look at your post & have been following your story. What a loser OW is. Sounds like a desparate person. You have been through a lot and I am amazed at how you are doing. You are a remarkably strong woman. Sounds like your H (ex?) is coming out of the fog(?)<P>What you have done for me is truly appreciated. We are all undergoing so much yet continue to support ourselves and others. It is truly unbelievable what people are able to do in times of need. <P>How are you doing? I hope you are taking time to take care of yourself. Let us know how you are progessing. I think about you often. <P>Dave, <BR>Your support is good medicine for me. I have been strenghtened by seeing the outpouring from the members here at MB. You know on the preg/child site, there were some awful women who were harassing others. It was awful. I became angry at their attitudes yet felt helpless since it was all done anonomously (sp?). <P>Yet, as a group some from here along with the moderators and even Steve Harley worked hard to push out those whose only aim was to hunt and hurt those innocent victims. <P>I am proud and appreciative of all the support I have received. Please continue to take care of yourself and never think you are not contributing. <P>I have learned that even if the piece I take with me from being here is that I have become a better person and mother, than so be it. It is progress and I will take more with me than I came in with and that is thanks to all of you. <P>For tonight, I will wait to see where H is and what direction he is taking. This is kind of like those mini series on TV except it is live...... <P>L.<P><BR>

Bio, Bonnie, Clarity & SKM,<P>Bio & Bonnie,<P>Sorry for the delayed response. Been kind of hectic but as you can see I am a long winded poster. Your ideas about a vacation is good. Actually H said he wanted to get away and even move out of the area. Bills are real high thanks to all this, but I will try to squeeze a vacation of sorts in ASAP. H works 2 jobs plus a side job (trimming/removing trees) he has been busy almost 7 days a week. <P>Clarity,<BR>Thank you for responding. You answered my cry for help....<BR>I shared your words of wisdom with H on the phone. I am a bit scared to send him this post, since I am the one that is screaming for help. <P>H says the minutes are hard. He wonders how you did it. I did send him both your posts. I am so glad to keep reading about your recovery. You both are truly blessed. If possible, please let your wife know how much we appreciate her allowing you to post here and help those of us in need. <P>H is a little intimated to do something nice for us. Maybe afraid I will expect it from now on???? He says he still feel the urge to fight me instead of work with me. He is working on it. He was always a kidder who liked to playfully give me a bad time, before we got married. That kind of kidding around got a bit old afterwards. H really never knew how to fit in and show love instead of being obnoxious. <P>I will try to remember your words and plan A the right way!!<BR>Ok, I will hold back the overbearing giver part and be a sweet taker!! That will be a challenge! <P>Thanks again.<P><BR>SKM,<P>How did I miss your response? Please forgive me. You have helped me so much in the past. Even when I read your responses on your posts to others, I have benefited. H even asks about you sometimes. <P>Thanks again. Been trying to keep a level head in all this. You all are beginning to make me feel happy. And again I need to breathe not hyperventilate. <P>Please keep up the good work and best to you & yours.<P>Again to all here. - <P>Aloha & Mahalo,<P>L.<P>