Bio, Bonnie, Clarity & SKM,<P>Bio & Bonnie,<P>Sorry for the delayed response. Been kind of hectic but as you can see I am a long winded poster. Your ideas about a vacation is good. Actually H said he wanted to get away and even move out of the area. Bills are real high thanks to all this, but I will try to squeeze a vacation of sorts in ASAP. H works 2 jobs plus a side job (trimming/removing trees) he has been busy almost 7 days a week. <P>Clarity,<BR>Thank you for responding. You answered my cry for help....<BR>I shared your words of wisdom with H on the phone. I am a bit scared to send him this post, since I am the one that is screaming for help. <P>H says the minutes are hard. He wonders how you did it. I did send him both your posts. I am so glad to keep reading about your recovery. You both are truly blessed. If possible, please let your wife know how much we appreciate her allowing you to post here and help those of us in need. <P>H is a little intimated to do something nice for us. Maybe afraid I will expect it from now on???? He says he still feel the urge to fight me instead of work with me. He is working on it. He was always a kidder who liked to playfully give me a bad time, before we got married. That kind of kidding around got a bit old afterwards. H really never knew how to fit in and show love instead of being obnoxious. <P>I will try to remember your words and plan A the right way!!<BR>Ok, I will hold back the overbearing giver part and be a sweet taker!! That will be a challenge! <P>Thanks again.<P><BR>SKM,<P>How did I miss your response? Please forgive me. You have helped me so much in the past. Even when I read your responses on your posts to others, I have benefited. H even asks about you sometimes. <P>Thanks again. Been trying to keep a level head in all this. You all are beginning to make me feel happy. And again I need to breathe not hyperventilate. <P>Please keep up the good work and best to you & yours.<P>Again to all here. - <P>Aloha & Mahalo,<P>L.<P>