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I went to counseling and she advised me that it was time to take control of my and my kids lives again. I had decided that if he didn't file I was going too, this has dragged on way too long. He has his cake and eat it too, time that he run out of cake for a while and let us enjoy it. I will covet your prayers in this next phase and hope that God will prevail in our situation by protecting me and my boys in these legal matters! Thanks, SEF
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SEF<P>I'm still not that familiar with your situation.<P>How long has the affair been going on?<P>How long have you done plan A?<P>How "quality" was the plan A? Were there no lovebusters?<P>Did you go to plan B after a well executed plan A?<P>You say you are counseling. Is this person familiar with MB principles? <P>
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The A has been going on for 15mths, D day was 6mths after start and then did Plan A for 6mths, WH left and has been gone for 3 mths. He has had contact with me only 1 time since he left. This trully was an exit affair. THis is the first time I have seen this counselor, it through employer furnished service (free), I have been to Christian counselor too for 3 mths. My WH has made his choice and therefore I will abide with his choice. I cannot live like we have any longer, I deserve a life too.
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