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#919586 06/13/01 02:19 PM
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One day a farmer's donkey fell down into a well.<BR> <BR>The animal cried piteously for hours as the farmer tried to figure out what to do.<P>Finally he decided the animal was old and the well needed to be covered up anyway, it just wasn't worth it to retrieve the donkey.<P>So he invited all his neighbors to come over and help him.<P>They all grabbed a shovel and began to shovel dirt into the well.<P>At first the donkey realized what was happening and cried horribly.<P>Then to everyone's amazement, he quieted down.<P>A few shovel loads later, the farmer finally looked down the well and was astonished at what he saw.<P>With every shovel of dirt that hit his back, the donkey was<BR>doing something amazing. He would shake it off and take a step up.<P>As the farmer's neighbors continued to shovel dirt on top of the animal, he would shake it off and take a step up. <P>Pretty soon, everyone was amazed as the donkey stepped up over the edge of the well and trotted off!<BR> <BR>Moral: Life is going to shovel dirt on you, all kinds of dirt.<BR> <BR>The trick to getting out of the well is to shake it off and take a step up.<P>Each of our troubles is a stepping stone.<P>We can get out of the deepest wells just by not stopping, never giving up! <P>Shake it off and take a step up! <P>Author Unknown. <BR> <P>

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That is a good one- here's another to add to the fun for anyone interested:<P>THE CRACKED WATER POT<P>A water bearer in India had two large pots, each hung on each end of a pole which he carried across his neck. One of the pots had a crack in it, and while the other pot was perfect and always delivered a full portion of water at the end of the long walk from the stream to the master's house, the cracked pot arrived only half full.<P>For a full two years this went on daily, with the bearer delivering only one and a half pots full of water in his master's house. Of course, the perfect pot was proud of its<BR>accomplishments, perfect to the end for which it was made.<BR>But the poor cracked pot was ashamed of its own imperfection, and miserable that it was able to accomplish only half of what it had been made to do.<P>After two years of what it perceived to be a bitter failure, it spoke to the water bearer one day by the stream. "I am ashamed of myself, and I want to apologize to<BR>you."<P>Why?" asked the bearer. "What are you ashamed of?"<P>"I have been able, for these past two years, to deliver only half my load because this crack in my side causes water to leak out all the way back to your master's house. Because of my flaws, you have to do all of this work, and you don't get full value from your efforts," the pot said.<P>The water bearer felt sorry for the old cracked pot, and in his compassion he said, "As we return to the master's house, I want you to notice the beautiful flowers along the path."<P>Indeed, as they went up the hill, the old cracked<BR>pot took notice of the sun warming the beautiful wild flowers on the side of the path, and this cheered it some.<BR>But at the end of the trail, it still felt bad because it had leaked out half its load, and so again it apologized to the bearer for its failure.<P>The bearer said to the pot, "Did you notice that there were flowers only on your side of your path, but not on the other pot's side? That's because I have always known about your flaw, and I took advantage of it. I planted flower seeds on your side of the path, and every day while we walk back from the stream, you've watered them. For two years I have been able to pick these beautiful flowers to decorate my master's table. Without you being just the way you are, he would not have this beauty to grace his house."<P>Moral: Each of us has our own unique flaws. We're all cracked pots. But it's the cracks and flaws we each have that make our lives together so very interesting and rewarding. You've just got to take each person for what they are, and look for the good in them. There is a lot of good out there. There is a lot of good in us! Blessed are the flexible, for they shall not be bent out of shape.<P>


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