Could someone please define or illustrate for me an adult relationship/marriage. What is a typical day like?<BR>How does the couple interact with each other? What does each expect from each other?<P>My W is constantly telling me that I expect to live in a fantasy world because I want a marriage where we are happy and fulfilled with each other....yet, I keep screwing it up because I don't know how to interact with her. When is it appropriate to touch each other, kiss...men, how do you initiate and intimate interlude? <P>Somewhere down the road it seems that while I am chronilogically almost 40, my brain is still back at about 18 or so and still doesn't know what to do?<P>I'm just so D*&^ed FRUSTRATED....I want this marriage to work. She tells me to just be happy and let go of the past and not dwell on the negatives....how do you get there?<P>Thanks for letting me vent a little...any comments or suggestions greatly appreciated!

Welcome freddyb <P>I need to get to work, but wanted to take a moment to pass some info one to you..... there is a post of general welcome you can use as a reference... <BR>It has a lot of quick links to many of the most important MB sites...<BR>Click here ==> General Welcome for All New Builders(Newbies) <BR> <A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/Forum29/HTML/000553.html" TARGET=_blank>http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/Forum29/HTML/000553.html</A> <P><BR>About your post... <P>This material will give you the answer you are looking for. You are not off base but there is specific work you and your wife will need to do to get your marriage on track. This website has the road map.<P>Z<P><BR>------------------<BR>He loves not who does not show love.<BR>----William Shakespeare<p>[This message has been edited by zorweb (edited June 22, 2001).]