Rick37, Im so glad you asked. Before I get long winded, I had the kids since Thursday and have not been keeping pace with your situation , however I would like to keep a copy of you plan B letter as it had some good stuff in it I may need in the future.<P>Long post.<P>I'll start by saying; AUGHHHHHHHHHH! <P>OK, W show's up and hour and a half early, we were at the pool. It was a pleasent surprise, however I was caught off guard and was not ready. She got her suit out of her car and jouned us. I asked her if she got off early from work, she did not work today. Did house work, cut the lawn etc. I replyed; I thought you were gonna do that on Friday night? JK is getting ready to do some major LB'ing. I have lots to do around the house. <P>I did some major LB'ing about her revionist history and imature bahavior, she threatened to leave.<P>After a tenious 30 minutes, I aploigized, and we got back on track. Played and tickeled a bit in the pool.<P>She was going to bring food from work for the picinc, I made cup cakes with the four year old, decorated with hearts. She did not work, so we had to go out to eat.<P>When we were getting ready she played one of our favoriate songs. She was cold, so I gave her a sweatshirt. It is form the weekend we fell in love. She cryed when I gave it to her.<P>I put my arm around her and hug her, we talk tenderly, and she says: I t you want me, why do you push me away? I miss you and love you and I'm frustrated. We talk tenderly and I play with her hair.<P>We have a nice dinner, she has 2 margratias.<P>Get back to my place and says to daughter, what do you think if mommy stays tonight?<P>I was dumb founded. We put 1 year old to bed. Talk with 4 year old for 30 minutes and W decides to leave, dog needs a walk.<P>She calls an hour later;<P>{daughter} asleep? Yep. <P>W; So how about that physical tension between us. <P>JK; What do you mean? <P>W; You know the sexual tension between us.<P>JK Emenating form whom?<P>W; BOth of us.<P>JK: well, I don't know about you I havn't had it since January.<P>W: it's been a while.<P>JK: What do you want to do about it?<P>W: Nothing, it's just sex.<P>JK I don't think so.<P>W; If I would have stayed something wouyld have happened.<P>JK: Maybe, maybe not.<P>W: Something would have happened. <P>JK: What would like to happen?<P>W: I don't know, its just sex, changes subject, call waiting beeps, its her parents, so she says she'll call me back.<P>1 hour later.<P>W: where were we.<P>JK: Why don't you load the dog in the van and come over and make love to your husband.<P>W: Laughs, plan B?<P>JK: OK How bout I load the kids in the truck and come over and you make love to your husband?<P>W: Laughs, OK plan C<P>JK; HOw about, phone sex. <P>W: Laughs.<P>JK There's always wednesday (family time for teh 4th)<P>W; changes subject.<P>Conversation turns to OM (still off)<P>My blood boils and I do some LB'ing, catch my slef after 5 minutes, and change subject. <P>I make it light and fluffy and say good night.<P>THis morning we talk from cell phone on the way to a Dr appoitment for the one year old. Wea re meeting there, light and pleasnt cionversation and she infoms me she tells people she is going throught a divorce.<P>I ask why she hasn't filed, she replys, because she can't afford it. I ask her if that what she really wants? She say s yes, I said are your sure, what was last nioght about?<P>She say I'm sure.<P>I'm dumbfounded again.<P>We meet and its light and pleasent, we even have a cute game of toy throwing, Initated by me at each other, and laugh alot. <P>She invite me to lunch. I pass, as I have to get to work.<P>I call her ten minutes later to complement her on being informed for the doctor and take a rain check for lunch, sooner rather than later. She says, I'm misunderstanding the invatation. <P>I said I don't know if I am or not, i would be nioce as you husband or future ex-husband to have lunch with you.<P>NO comment.<P><BR>She is driving me CRAZY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!<P> <P><BR> <P> <BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by Rick37:<BR><B>Just wondering if you had your Sunday evening get together with your wife and kids. We are interested in knowing how it is going.</B><HR></BLOCKQUOTE><P>
