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Well...he's suddenly acting almost normal!..eeek...but also a blend of how he was when we were dating??..afraid to fight with me??..<BR>We went to the grocery store together...he is still staying at his parents' house...anyway...he wanted to make bean soup for his dad at their house...so I said whatever and continued down the aisle after throwing it in the cart...he proceeded to start listing reasons for making it there...using their crockpot and how his dad hadn't had any in years..yadda yadda...<BR>Then he switched when I just looked at him like yeah and so?..anyway...he kept talking and I kept shopping...he then said I'm trying to talk to you...I told him yeah and I'm listening...<BR>Guess he finally figured out I'm getting tired of waiting on him to wake up...the bean soup being made at his parents house...he changed to how about me making it for him and bringing it to him at work...I said okay...then he switched yet again...<BR>No..he'll make it at our house on thursday for work thursday since he'll be here...okayyyy....both of us are off wednesday afternoon and night?...guessing he's staying both nights even with the holiday?...<BR>He's been spending a lot of time with me...and acting like the man I fell in love with...but we are not talking about the situation...<BR>At this point it looks like he's afraid I'm going to give up and he doesn't want that???<BR>eeeekkk...<BR>I've been giving him more trust little by little....am praying I'm not hanging myself...<BR>Oh yeah...one other note...he's finally getting his firebird thursday since I was able to get it budgeted barely for it...now I'm afraid he's going to take off for the hills like a 16 yr old....help....whatever trust he's built is going to go bye bye when he does that...but then again I asked for it didn't I?...agreeing to buy the car?..we really need that second car...sigh.....
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Maybe you should drive the firebird and let him have the other one.<BR>Things sound promising, hang in there.
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MacG:<P>One step at a time, one day at a time. Keep to the Plan A. Don't forget to pray.<P>Godspeed,<BR>STL
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