No problem. I accepted long ago everyone does not appreciate everyone, and does not mean anyone wishes another anything ill. I calls em as I sees em, some like it, some don't...but the that's what makes the world go round. Personally I like the same in return, so thanks for your response, and post to me or not, it is your choice, I can deal with it, and prefer all points of view...that makes for good reality checks. OTOH, I do respect others wishes, so will not post to you (although I may appear on a thread of yours because they kinda expand, or I may seem to disagee with you to a third party, is nature of the board, but will not post to you), but I do find it curious your woe is me has turned to irritation (ok, I slipped a last little analysis in, my apology in advance, will be the last).<P>But I do need to make one observation, no one knows anyone's situation in detail (a clue), if that were the criteria for posting, this board would be blank. What we all do have is shared human experiences, and varying degrees of insight into human behaviour (ours and others). I may be right on with you, or I may not, but it we (humans) did not engage in overanalyzinf, we would get nowhere, trying to figure out stuff is what this is all about, we may get it wrong or err. Often many of you are so off the mark re me it is incomprehensible how the conclusion was reached, but what interests me is that such feedback occurs, and that maybe there is some truth in it anyways.......I value reality checks, no matter where they come from (right or wrong, helpful or malicious, sane or crazy...I will asess validity), so if you see the board as essentially a helping place, I can use anyone's help, including yours so plz don't stop on my account, but of course do what you want...good luck in your life.