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I was just wondering if i can get a thing going here i know that lots of us here are prego at this time, but frankly i cant keep track of who is and isnt<BR>SO im starting this thread to find out whos pregnant?....BS or WS?...how does spouse feel?.... Planned or Unplanned? How far along?..other children?.. . and any other tidbits you would like to share.......<BR>Topie I feel for you Hun and best of luck with your Blood tests.Keep us posted plz<P><BR>Ill start<BR>unplanned<BR>5 months<BR>BS<BR>WS is happy<BR>1 other child<BR>Will find out sex on tuesday<BR>
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-unplanned<BR>-7 weeks 1 day<BR>-BS<BR>-H not sure if he's happy or not (but neither am I)<BR>-4 other children (all boys.. 4 yr old in heaven since Sept 2000, 2 yr old, 5 month old twins)<BR>-We'll hopefully know on Monday if this pregnancy is a keeper or not (Tuesday at the LATEST I presume).<BR>-I was 7 1/2 mos preggo with the twins when WS wanted out, and they were born while we were separated (by emergency c-section due to my increased blood pressure.. gee.. I wonder why that was??? DUH!!!)<P>Karen<P>
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Congrats to you both.<BR>I am NOT pregnant, Thank God, no more for me but my last was unplanned and I was not thrilled about it although my H was.<BR>Babycenter was a great place filled with some really great women who were all pregnant and so willing to listen to anything I had to say without being judgemental at all.<BR>Although I understand that most come here because of marital problems they were just as understanding over there about these issues to plus you get the added bonus of having someone who can symphathize with your aches and pains and cravings and mood swings.<BR>NOt trying to get rid of anyone just thought I"d mention that site for more support on your pregnancy.<BR>Best of luck to you both.
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WOW-- I thought I was the only one who could ever have been in that situation.. My husband and I were married 6 years, We tried for 6 months to get pregnant and did. When I was 8 mths. he told me he wanted out. I had the baby by emergency section b/c I had no fluid left.. my water had broken and i did not even realize it. (which is also stress related) IMAGINE THAT!! anyway.. the baby is 6 weeks old now and we are still separated even though we did have lunch today for his birthday-- very positive!!!! I have all the hope in the world that things will get better. I know it and God knows it and we are just waiting on my h to realize it!!! --- ashley
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I'm not pg now, but h had his one night PA when I was in my last month of pregnancy. he started his online cyber crap when baby was 2 or 3 weeks old. Baby is now 3.5 months old. This is a horrible time to have to deal with this stuff.
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shedawg:<P>Babycenter is AWESOME!! I've been a member on there for just over 2 1/2 yrs now. I adore the updates they send. The only thing that I had trouble with was that there wasn't enough information (for my liking) on multiple pregnancies and post partum and caring for the kids. Oh well, at least they have the multiples chat room... I used to frequent there during the first 2 months my twins were around. I much prefer to spend my time on here though. ![[Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]](http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/images/icons/smile.gif) <P>Karen
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OOPs.....I was gonna say that my spaghetti sauce is better than ANYTHING out of a jar.....but I see that AIN'T the topic here! Sorry!<P>Love,<BR>Xman
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Wow - cany believe I missed this post.<P>I'm due in 6 weeks (28 Aug)<P>Just moved interstate to get support from family - and to get away from OW.<P>I'm the BS<P>H still living down south but says hes coming up in 5 weeks - pushing it a bit.<P>Unplanned prego - total shock and devastated at first, but now I couldn't be happier. Accept that hes left me to pursue her. He says hes looking forward to being a dad. How its all going to work I have no idea. I'm very concerned and scared.<P>First child.<P>Please keep this thread going or at least let us all know which posts are to do with the pregos.<P>I have so much to talk to you about.<P>Dancer
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HI all!<BR>I am two months, H is lukewarm, it wasn't planned, I still have nightmares, anixiety, wonder if I am crazy...wonder if my dreams will be lost if I do this..yet hope things work out..we are getting more excited about it..we already have two kids...my last pregnancy was a tubal, so I fear I may have problems...counting the days to the doctors' visit.<BR>
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Wow all thanks for the replies.<BR>my first doc visit is tuesday and im 5 months along....... i just been so depressed about the marriage that i havent had any gumption to go to the doc... i know bad outlook... im getting more excited about the pregnancy since i felt him (hopefully) move..<BR>this is my thrid Full term pregnancy and with this one i have alot of back pain and cramping..like PMS.... Doc said on the phone this is probrably a urinary tract infection....... joy... hope thats all it is best of luck to all on their marraigages anhd babies. <BR>Will post more on this thread after my visit<BR>
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LOTR<P>Are you still living with H?<BR>What sort of support is he to you?<P>Dancer
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dOC VISIT WENT WELL EVERY SEEMS NORMAL THUS FAR<P>BTW<BR>ITS A BOY
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