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Can I tell my W about the concept of being "addicted" to the A and the OM? Can I repeat (nicely) that it has to stop? Or is part of Plan A just letting her go on and do what she wants right now?<P>What a childish question. I really have learned, y'all... I'm just having one of those moments...<P>Thx,<BR>zen
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Zen,<P>Those in the fog cannot be taught. Those coming out of fog must 'find' information for themselves....or they might withdraw back into the fog.<P>The learning and growing must come from your side first. And it is important that the changes BE FOR YOU, not her. Trust in God for her learning and growing. Believe and it will happen.<P>Borrowing a line from <I> Field of Dreams </I>, "If you build it, they will come."<P>Hugs and Prayers, <P>Cali
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Zen,<P>I just replied to your other thread and on a roll. For now, I would hold off. You are just separating, going on a trip and much is happening. Save that piece for after you come back and see how things are. <P>Remember a lot changes daily in the fog, you will be gone 1 week. A lot of history can be rewritten in that time. <P>Have a safe trip. <P>L.<BR>
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