Yup! X has moved 7+/- miles away! This is the best relief I've had all week. <P>H also told one of the SIL's that he wanted to clarify that he wants nothing to do with the X. SIL said, why did you want to clarify that? TnT thinks I think you do? He said TnT feels very insecure about X being too close to her, and this is an 'action' that he was doing to help demonstrate that X is not important to him.<P>He didn't get it quite right, but he did make a stab at it... <P>So that is good news! Friday night I saw the mattresses - and Saturday they had another truck load. H says SD is moving back in with them so she can babysit for her mother if her mother goes back to work (at the bank? hope not.) Hopefully we don't have to have too much contact because SD is living with X. <P>Just thought you'd want to know.<P>TnT<p>[This message has been edited by trustntruth (edited July 22, 2001).]

Good. You can breathe again, eh?<P>Have a great Sunday!<P>This was pretty sudden, wasn't it? I mean, three days ago we weren't talking about her moving. <P>Things that make you go hmmmmmmm...

Great! Always happy to hear good news. Hope you have a wonderful day and things keep looking up!

Yes, this is good and not just good it is WOW, wonderful.<P>We were visiting with neighbors, and mentioned the mattresses going by, haha! The husband ribbed me and said "yeah, I heard that they are moving down the street from you on the lake." If looks could kill. I said "if so - we will sell and never live there" H just laughed it off - how little he realizes that I would sell without thinking twice.!!! <P>I will have a better Sunday, thanks Sheryl and 2T2C. It is husbands birthday again, and this time WE are having the BBQ, and SIL is not planning any karaoke parties for me to crash. <P>Just when you think you can't take anynmore, something changes! YES! <P>

TNT--I think it was you that once told me that God answers prayers with a cherry on top? Even if that wasn't you, the X moving fits that description.<P>Feeling warm & fuzzy for you. Enjoy your front yard again.<P>Lor

Hi TNT,<P>Sounds good. I would have answered your other post but I have been sick again.<P>I think your H is really trying to show you that the marriage counts to him. I know in my family heven forbid you do something that might look unkind to others. It kind of stinks because at times it feels like as a family member you do not count but I think deep down he is trying. It just takes time for the frying pan hits to register for him. I think a lot of men are this of way.<P>I think you might find you are a recovery couple on this forum. You H has made a great amount of strides. You are doing something right. Keep it up. <P>I am praying for you.

TNT,<P>I saw your other post, but have been super busy and didn't get a chance to respond.<P> about the mattresses, and about your H's attempt to make you feel better by talking to SIL!!!!!<P>Keep praying, Desiree<P>------------------<BR>"Life is made up, not of great sacrifices or duties, but of little things in which smiles and kindnesses and small obligations, given habitually, are what win and preserve the heart and secure comfort."<P>Sir Humphry Davy<BR>