I am moving this comming weekend! Got the house half packed (it's a horrible mess!). I work for 4 more days & then we'll get the rental truck Thurs., load, pack & clean Friday and leave either Friday or early Sat. morning.<P>He's been so good, I guess he meant it when he said he was gonna fix the part of him that kept getting scared. He's being wonderful with the girls when they say they're gonna miss their friends (we will still be comming here fairly often & I've talked to both the girls b/f's parents so they can still see each other when we're here). He says, I don't know what I was looking for, cuz you're right here. Also, last night we were talking about what is going and what's being given away from my house, I have a vase that I use to hold spatula's, etc. on my stove and he said we don't need that I have one. I said (jokingly) that we would keep it for all the roses he's going to be sending me. He said, everytime I mess up? I'd better just have my paycheck direct deposited to the flower shop. It still continues to amaze me what I get from him if I'm not pushing/demanding it. Or what I hear if I'm really listening.<P>Are ya happy for me? (I'm not getting too much of that from many people in my "real" life as I pretty much expected!).

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You are a success. Keep it up and don't drop the ball.<P>Awesome news, and thanks for your continued support.<P>

I'm more than happy for you, Bitsy! Being reunited with your spouse is the greatest. Hearing the many success stories keeps me motivated to the day that I, too, can re-establish relations with my hubby. Stay strong and take real good care of each other.<P>------------------<BR><B>Time heals all wounds as long as you DON'T pick at them!</B>

Woo-hoo!! Way to go bitsy!!<P>I am VERY, VERY happy for you! All of us here at MB are! Don't worry about what others think, they are probably just concerned for you and looking out for your best interests. They'll come around once they realize this is for real.<P>Hugs,<BR>HbH

Way to go Bitsy,<P> Thumbs up to ya. Thanks for posting that info, many of us need to hear of the successes of fellow MBers. I am VERY HAPPY for you.<P> Don't worry about other people, they will come around. But who cares if they don't. Keep on keepin on.<BR>

Congratulations Bitsy!!! I wish you much happiness. I love reading good news posts and this just gave me some hope again!!!!<BR>cybil

I'm smiling for you <P>He sounds like he is making mega steps, so hold onto that, and that sense of humor.<P>Best of luck to you.

Thanks for the support everyone. It means so much. I know all the "real" people I know are just worried about all the problems we've had, and are really just concerned. I hate having to defend myself, us, or him all the time, but I do understand everyone's thoughts are just about what's best for us all. I just know. . .I believe, I believe, I believe. I just know who he really is, and I believe in him.<P>My last few posts have been about happy things, and I've gotten many responses from people who've said it's given them a little hope, or extra strength. I'm glad I can help in that way. I'm still not quite to the point, with myself, that I can post replies to other's threads often offering much help. But I'll get there. I am grateful for you all though.<P>Thanks everyone, I knew I would get the support here, you can't know it until you've lived it.

Awesome Bitsy!! Way to go!! Can't wait for the details for the reviving of the wedding vows!! LOL<P>Trueheart

So nice to read 'good' news!<P>I look forward to your updates in recovery...<P><I>***Life is a journey; enjoy the view***</I><P>Cali

Bitsy,<P>I am very happy for you. May your progress continue moving forward. <P>L.

I've been waiting............<P> <P>Stay strong and remember your lessons! Congrats to all of you!<P>Love,<P>Lori