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I have OC this week-end, Saturday. I was talking to OW #1 (OC's mom) on the phone and she asked how things were. I told her I've been talking to H. She knows before yesterday, I was not. <P>BTW: OW #1 now talks to OW #2 a lot<P>So, what do you bet the chances are that OW #1 will tell OW #2 that I've been talking to H? (H is with OW #2 - I know, very confusing)<P>Rut roh! Do you think OW will LB H??? Gosh .. I hope so! [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]<P>Jo<P>------------------<BR>"Remain flexible like a reed, as opposed to an oak which can snap in the wind"<p>[This message has been edited by Resilient (edited July 26, 2001).]

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Did you plant any gems? You know, the way he had to get tested and fingerprinted? Oh, and did you mention the paternity suit he's involved in with OW#6? Jo, Jo, Jo, please stay current!!!!!<P>WAT

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Jo...<P>If I didnt know better, I would say you thought this all out? If not, and it all works, claim responsibility for it all... [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]!!<P>Gimme the # to OW #2 so I can call and let her know that the package he sent you arrived and you were happy to receive it!!...LOL<P>True

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I know! I really need to CATCH UP! Sheeeesh!<P>LMAO! Hush up WAT! [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]<P>Jo

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Uhhh hem .... well ...<P>I didn't give out any details because if I did, and it got back to H, which it would via this grapevine, that would be an LB on me.<P>Simply stating that I talked to him is plenty fuel for this fire ...<P>p.s. I wish we had a devil face [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]

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Resilient:<BR>Are you FOR REAL???<BR>How many OWs does your H have? You actually have to give them NUMBERS?<BR>And you get a big chuckle because one of them might THINK that you TALKED to your H?<BR>You seriously need to find something else to do with your time!<BR>How 'bout a hobby? <BR>ANYTHING!

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Another success story heard from?<P>Im not sure RC, but support doesn't seem to be your strong suit. Either that or you are a specialist at coming in on the end of conversations and putting in your $.02 worth, which "ain't" worth that much.<P>Don't give up your day job. Counselling doesn't seem to be in your future.

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Well hi there Reality Check!<P>So nice of you to drop in .... I hope you are well.<P>Lv,<BR>Jo [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]<P>

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OK fine Jo, you are better at not LBing than me... [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]!<P>Having a rough afternoon here..not with M, just work overload! Have a great rest of your day!<P>True

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No worries TrueHeart ...<P>Thank you for being there. Very thoughtful.<P>Jo

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Jo, <P>I hope my evil mind did not influence you. We do love to see those OP LB tho dont we? I bet realitycheck is really good at it.<P>Lora

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Okay .. I fixed it. Called OW #1. Explained that my talking to H was between her and I and the fence post. That if the A with OW #2 was to end, it needed to end on it's own steam, dieing it's own natural death.<P>Pheeeew, now I feel better.<P>Jo<P>Had to be that ole' Catholic thing ... GUILT.<p>[This message has been edited by Resilient (edited July 26, 2001).]

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Ya know RealityCheck says WE need to get a life?<BR>If he/she's not here for support or to give support, but to hassle us...what does that say about his/her life???<P>Just a thought,<BR>Cali<P>PS...Jo...LBs that are not intentional don't count against us [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]...let the natural LB's roll...<P>------------------<BR><I>Live Impeccably In Your Word.<BR>Don't Take Anything Personally.<BR>Make No Assumptions.<BR>Do Your Best Always. </I><p>[This message has been edited by JustPlainCali (edited July 26, 2001).]

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LOL.....now that she knows the info is only between the two of you, she will surely have told already?<BR>(((((hugs))))) cl

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Guess it was a long day, or short, as the case may be - it certainly wasn't Friday. as

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I'm sorry, Hon, I just had to giggle....guess 'cause I've been here so long.<P>I admire you so very much. And you know I've always been in favor of a bit of OW lbing!!!! [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]<P>Love,<P>Lori


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