I'm ready once again to launch the plan B letter. He usually comes over on Friday so I left his letter on Thursday evening for him. He didn't show up on Friday, but phoned me to talk about buying property that I had mentioned to him. I asked him to come along to look at it(two hour drive away) but he said he had to work.<P>The letter is still waiting for him. Last time I saw him I think he detected my distancing myself so he offered me one of his credit cards to keep in case of an emergency. I took it but I gave it back with the plan B letter. It's like he thinks he can hang on to me by using money even though he lives with another woman.<P>My plan B letter reveals to him my plan to move away as soon as our house is painted and sold, and I find another job in this other city. I've asked him not to see me in the meantime.<P>I must have written out that plan B letter 150 times! I really don't really remember what it says. My brain is mush.<BR>I just wish he would come and get it!<P>I'm off to Toronto for five days so he'll have it when I get back.<P>What do I expect? His usual reaction-silence.<P>