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#940343 08/21/01 12:21 AM
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if you were the OP what would your MB name be?<BR>and how did you come up with it?<P><BR>if the OW was posting here i think her name should be <BR>3FacesOFEve<BR>she definately has some type of mental disorder trying to befriend me while screwing my H

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[QUOTE]Originally posted by 1FuctMarriage:<BR>[B]if you were the OP what would your MB name be?<BR>and how did you come up with it?>>><P>Probably "PoorPitifulMe". That was how she portrayed herself to H in the beginning (then he got to play Knight in Shining armor). "I'm a single Mom, I have no money, my boyfriend is mean to me, I want to go to college someday but I can't afford it, my car broke down, life is so hard.." Sounds like she fell down the whine cellar.

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Princess...<P>It's in her email name...her students give her things w/ princess on them...she refers to herself as princess and my H calls her princess...<P>Barf bag anyone?<P>Cali<BR>

#940346 08/20/01 01:23 PM
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Ok ill bite on this one<P>MY H's XOW <B>does</B> post here<BR>a FEW of her user names are as follows<P>Iluvuwolf (wolf being her charming nick name she gave my H)<BR>michellewntsu<BR>feelssolostnalone<P><BR>and theres more <P>i just choose not to post easier than making up 50 names and emails like she does<P>however if I got to chose her name.....<P>I'd have to go with what H has been calling her lately<P>STUG

#940347 08/20/01 02:15 PM
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I am the om, and you see my name.

#940348 08/20/01 02:40 PM
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Actually it's something I don't feel is useful to my recovery at all.<P>1FM - would you consider changing your user name? I'm not offended by it, but it just has such anger to it. I can't help feel that you have so much anger but you aren't allowing yourself much hope.

#940349 08/20/01 03:06 PM
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I never said it would help your recovery, however i consider it one of those things tha t made me feel better and lighter after i answered it<P>would i change my user name?<BR>Nope

#940350 08/20/01 09:44 PM
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I can't think of any other name more fitting than the one I commonly use for the OP Bi***<BR>cybil

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Hmmmm...<P>Curly<BR>Red-headed<BR>Adultress<BR>*****<BR>Who<BR>Is<BR>Already<BR>Married<P>CRABWIAM!!! Crabby for short!!<P>Can you tell I"m the BS???? LOL<P>Karen<BR>

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Let's see, OW goes by many names, maybe SS#s also? Not sure about that one. Anyway, she use to use 'Almond eyes', Her initials 2 H's initials (& vise versa for H - she setup most of their e-mail accounts so she could control the passwords). Initials loves initials, there were at least 6 different ones, can't remember them all. But if she were to come here? Maybe VAIN OW might fit. PsycoBabble is perfect. <P>Hey all you Ws's out there, you don't think the OP controlled you more than the BS? This OW thought she had squatters rights on H and his body. Very possessive person. Makes you wonder why the WS is so insistent on accusing the BS of so much control when the WS is being fully controlled (at least some, especially the OW kind) by the OW. <P>I told my H that women know exactly what to say to make a man putty in her hands. Some resort to lying to keep this control. H doesn't really believe me. What do you all think?<P>I told him, I could do that also but I respect you too much to treat you like that. I don't play those kinds of games with poeple's personalities. <P>L. <P>

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STUG = <B>ST</B>upid and <B>UG</B>ly<BR> keep in mind H made the name not me WOOHHOOO<p>[This message has been edited by TeeAreOhYouBeEL.Eee (edited August 21, 2001).]

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I just had to post on this one.<P>My mother-in-law calls her ...mattress maget!<P>Of course, I couldn't come up with anything else...

#940355 08/22/01 12:14 AM
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O...<P>You are right on the money...My God we will defend that OP to the hilt, in the face of our own spouse because we are controlled. Our egos are so stroked we walk around in a state of bliss that defies the imagination. And God forbid the W/H rock our fantasy of how wonderful we are...cuz the OP said so!! I cannot even believe it was me!! I get sick just remembering it!! I was so pliable, I must have been Gumby!!<P>*Go confidently in the direction of your dreams.*<P>Trueheart

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Nappyhead....You would just have to see him. <P> jd

#940357 08/22/01 06:53 AM
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I was the OW and mine would have been Iwantmylifeback...<P>Thank goodness I got it! [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]

#940358 08/22/01 07:41 AM
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If I was my wife's OM, my username would be WatchMeTakeThisSucker

#940359 08/22/01 08:26 AM
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If I were OM, my name would be:<BR>imgonnascrewupthelivesofasmanypeopleicanitdoesntmatteriftheyarechildrenornot<P>oops I guess that's too many so I guess I will have to settle for:<BR>I'manarse<P>S&C


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