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I am sitting here at 11 pm waiting for my wife who was supposed to be home two hours ago...<P>She is at the OM's apt.... she went to make sure he was OK, since he had not talked to her all weekend....<P>I know other people have it worse them I am, but this is torture!!! I am in plan A, so I think I am supposed to be non-judging, and if possible, pleasant....<P>Ughhhh....<P>I told her that I did not want her to go. Did not do much good. <P>
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It's hard to stay pleasant in such a situation, isn't it? But you're right, that's some of the idea behind plan A.<P>Just remember, if you choose to talk to her about it when she comes home, be sure to use a lot of "I feel" statements. Beware of pointing the verbal accusatory finger.<P>Karen<BR>
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