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One year ago I filed for divorce
#946473 09/13/01 10:24 AM
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Repost from D/D:<P>One year ago today I sat, 7 months pregnant, in my attorney's office, signing the papers that would allow him to file my divorce complaint.<P>One year later, this morning, I was startled awake by my 10 month old daughter's screams of pain (gas pains woke her) and had to disentangle myself from my husband's arms in order to reach her.<P>We are now 2.5 months into recovery.<P>Last night my husband told an old friend that he had left the OW, and returned home. He told that friend that being home with me was far better than he had ever imagined it and that he is happy.<P>Am I happy?<P>I don't know. I told my husband that for today, I am content and that's enough.<P>Our 11 year anniversary is in 2 days.<P>What a wild journey I have been on!!!!<BR><P>------------------<BR><I>Pain is a given, misery is optional.</I>
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BR, good for you!! It is amazing how much our lives can change in 1-year's time.<P>I am very happy that you were able to come to the place that you have with yourself. And I thank you for passing some of that wisdom on to me and others.<P>HbH
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Megacongratulations!!
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Congrads!!!!!!!!!<BR>My anniversary is this Saturday! Going away with my H for a week-end of fun. We have been in recovery for a couple of years now. Still working through things, but happy again mostr of the time.
Re: One year ago I filed for divorce
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BR,<P><B>Congratulations!</B> That is so awesome.<P>And I love your signature - Pain is a given, misery is optional.<P>Keep up the great work!<P> [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]
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BR,<BR>Boy did I need that today while my M is now at it's lowest point. I'm so happy for you (or content to use your word)! My prayer for you and your H is continued ups!<P>MOM

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